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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

So she plans a trip to Disney for her birthday and orders an expensive cake, but for L’s birthday, it's a Costco cake, last-minute planning, and “good enough.” Can you imagine if someone said that about TBP's? You know it'll be her “friends” she’s invited, and their kids, if they have any, will be there. L isn't allowed any of her thoughts, likes, friends, topics, interests, etc. Gross. So slimy.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

NB wanted to make sure everyone knows they were hanging out last night. She must of saw the Bday snub post 🤣

[–] Lisamarie@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think they’re here and on Reddit often…

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Watch me style my brain, no shirt of course. A must do to get ready for a 4 year olds party.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

Imagine this being the content you post the day you’re hosting your daughters birthday 🤮

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

It amazes me the way she wishes people happy birthday compared to how others fawn over her birthday. NB just gets a reposted video with a basic message attached. Bri actually posts a photo of her and NB with a nice message.

I’ve thought for a while now that NB and Sarah aren’t as close anymore. Bet Sarah is jealous that Bri and NB got closer bc they both are interested in women’s sports and Sarah is just a try hard.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

I guess BirdShit didn’t want to partake in 7-11 hotdog bday lunch today? Does Becci consume anything healthy or is it just junk food and cat feces 24/7?

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago

She was hanging out with a writer instead, always prioritizing herself. It was the woman who wrote the Christmas movie Lindsey Lohan was in. It makes me feel sick that she’s digging her way into sweet little movies that make us smile. She’s such a jerk.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 weeks ago

She went out to have coffee with another rando instead.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

She’s a writer ✍️ things, things and more things.

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago

Why is she always the only one sitting on a stool while the others stand around her? It’s weird. It screams, “I’m the important one; you must know that!”

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

Always hiding her belly with her arm. I can still see it Birdshit.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

All the Shine girls taking turns crying this week. The Disney cure can’t come soon enough. I wonder if Ariana and NB can squeeze out some tears before they leave.

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

She’s Sarahsplaining how frugal she is with L’s party planning. So many words so little substance as per usual. Who the F gets nervous about throwing a kids birthday party? She’s saying she’s nervous about how the party is going to come together. L got to watch TV for her calendar birthday treat so I can’t imagine she has big expectations for her lazy ass mother (if 4 year olds have expectations 🙂). What miss shallow is nervous about is if her influencer friend guests will praise her. She says such stupid crap. She has no confidence what so ever. She has to prove she’s not spending on her kids party cuz she wants people to like her but she keeps lying about her appearance and lives a purely wasteful lifestyle. Spend the money on L - who cares?!

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It's because it has nothing to do with her actual child and her bday and has everything to do with her and how people see her, how she planned her kids bday, what she did for her to make up for all of the times she's left her, for the gram. It's this image she has to uphold, while still lying. That's what makes her nervous. She's so far deep, anything can slip. She's under a microscope and all will be lost soon enough and she knows it. Side note: funny how she's frugal for her kid, but spending sees no boundaries for herself

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Like her 3 year planned Disney trip with all her influencer friends lol. That's gonna be the end for her, especially with everything that's going on.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

Nailed it!!

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Does she not know how to look up an item in the store app, and it'll tell you exactly where it is?! Why is she so incapable of helping herself? How does she have four kids?!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

She really thought she was doing something. “For the futurrrrrrre” I can stand her crispy r’s and fake voice acting.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

The pregnancies just began and she became a mother - she doesn’t know how it happened! 😂

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

She’s truly useless, can’t even figure out how to grocery shop

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

She’s very manic? She just babbles on like crazy. Like do people really care about her throwing a massive overblown party for her 4 year old? We all know NK has prob planned the whole thing and she’s told Sarah to go out and buy certain things bc she’s useless. Who even is this party for, does L even care at the end of the day? She just wants to show off for Instagram that she cares about her kid one day a year. Poor kid doesn’t even have any real friends to invite to this lavish themed party bc she’s not in daycare, preschool, any clubs. All this effort and the party will just be Sarah’s adult friends and their kids.

And why is she even nervous? L truly won’t care about all the little details. Is she nervous one of her influencer friends won’t like it? I don’t get it.

Also whose face is this? She’s so fake.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I cannot stand her fucking fake lips. Remember ladies, “love yourself”

Listening to her babble on about poor L’s party, like stfu. I’d be more nervous and embarrassed because poor L has NO FRIENDS! What an idiot

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

They make me sick tbh, she can’t lie that they’re not filled bc it’s so obvious.

I feel so bad for L, no little friends that she made on her own. Sometimes I feel Sarah doesn’t want L to spread her wings bc then she’d have to be friendly with other kids parents and they’ll see the real her.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Who cares her mother was an ECE? Blah blah blah. So worried about the party because she has to keep up with the likes of Jillian.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

Her mother was not an ECE. She was an in home daycare provider to a couple of neighborhood kids. Please. And in the 80's/90's, no licensing requirements.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

She LOVES to bring up that her mother was an ECE. I feel she tells people to justify why she’s so useless, like “oh my mother is just used to being so helpful with the kids so I let her!”

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

She's getting grosser by the day. I think she feels the walls closing in. And it's a 4 yr olds birthday party....it's not that fucken complex. Stfu

[–] Lisamarie@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

That’s exactly why she’s saying this! And wow that photo is nothing like the real life photos people have posted of her! She’s a horrible person.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago (9 children)

It’s going to be fun to see other accounts blow up because of the tic tok ban and Sarah stay the same( 🤞🏻). Tic Tok wasn’t interested in her - she tried to grow but flopped.

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[–] cookiefleck@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

That clip of her putting the sweater on the stupid goose is FULL of bendy walls and disappearing trim behind her. She is such a lazy liar.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago (5 children)

This right here says it all. What a sad, sheltered life they’re giving this poor sweet child

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

Um.....that's actually so sad. Her best friend is a ugly concrete goose? Wow. She's demented posting this.

[–] Idontbelonghere@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

As the mom of an autistic child, this is super normal to me.

And that is all I will say.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Certainly not a jab at neurodivergent kiddos. The overarching theme here is that Birdshit keeps L in captivity so that she doesn’t get sick and bring home germs which would hinder Birdshits constant gifted opportunities. She also doesn’t want L exposed to other kids/germs because then she’d actually have to get off her lazy ass and be a contributing parent.

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[–] Lisamarie@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

That is really sad & just speaks volumes! I’d like to see L. be allowed to develop her own interests, things she likes, etc. Not just what S. tells her she likes!🙄 I keep hoping she’ll go to JK in September, though I know it’s unlikely. I’m a teacher and I really think she would love school, open up her world, make friends, etc.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago

This is so bloody weird.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago

I truly don’t think she realizes how sad this is. She thinks it’s so cute but it just goes to show how sheltered this poor kid is, she deserves so much better.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Any guesses as to why she hides the identity of this “team” she claim to have?

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago

I bet it's just planning how much extra time little L will be at her real guardians' house while her mommy leaves her unnecessary carbon footprint all over Epcot

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Such a busy boss babe! Gotta write in all those hair appointments, spa treatments and shopping trips, must be exhausting for her.

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[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Sweating looking at empty calenders lol.. oh she's sooo busy. Busy boss girl

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 weeks ago

🤣She didn’t even break a sweat “running” her Disney 10k but these calendars will do it.

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