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Thats not being a friend though.
That’s why we dumped one of our friends.
Everything was about her. She’d complain about wanting to change, and if you mentioned it when she was doing the destructive thing she’d get pissed. If you needed something from her you were taking advantage or putting to much on her.
She had some fancy therapy bully words for it, it’s too early for me to remember.
Anyways, removing her from life removed like 90% of all drama.
She could be very fun, but in hindsight awful fucking person.
ETA: probably the worst was she was trying to save money to propose to her partner, but took uber everywhere. We bought a new car. Instead of selling the old one we gave it to her. For free. She would constantly complain about that fucking car all the time. There was a mechanic who wanted to buy it because it was in such good shape for its age.
Sounds like you killed her
That would be removing her from her life