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I've downvoted things which I know are wrong (people love expressing opinions on things they have no expertise on - just check out the threads on order of operations! 😂), and upvote correct things (the whole point to up/downvote is to push relevant things to the top), otherwise neither usually. Sometimes I use upvote to indicate I liked something someone said.
Yep.
It's true that down-voting is a form of information, in some contexts. I could even say "Who wants tacos today? Up-vote if yes, down-vote if no", and it could be fully friendly. It is just that here, in this situation, I didn't get it.
Ofc it's this huge tangent from the OP b/c originally there was just a single down-vote, and I was curious if I were missing something wrt DDG, but it sounds like not, just "sometimes people prefer to use Google". Which sounds like it would apply to every non-Google suggestion though?
And then my asking that meta-question quadrupled the number of down-votes - probably like you said, people consider this tangent not relevant to the OP - but at least as a result of it all I know I am not missing anything important... that anyone is willing to write out:-D. Which seems important, crucial even, info for OP and others to have? About the down-sides to DDG I mean.
But look how many words and messages we had to use and even number of respondents had to participate just to dig out that truth. Even a comment like "you suck, nerd!" - aside from its unfriendliness & irrelevance to the discussion - does act to disambiguate the reasoning behind a down-vote, whereas simply down-voting with no explanation sends a confusing signal with no clear interpretation (except perhaps in the mind of the sender).
This is why I may pile on the downvotes, to signal agreement, but if I am the first to take that initiative, I do at least take the time to reply so they aren't left wondering why.
Remember the human, and all of that:-).
I only ever downvote rudeness, active spam, or something I think is off-topic. I explain off-topic downvotes but don't feel DOWNLOAD MY SCAM APP TODAY http://wwe.scamlink.fakesite.com/ deserves an explanation and just needs to be pushed down in visibility + reported. I am too wary of getting into an online fight with the person I downvoted and reported for hurling slurs or being a snarky sarcastic namecalling ass to someone being genuine lest they start coming after me too, so I don't reply to them and explain "I downvoted you because I think you're being unnecessarily unkind." Half the time I do actually try to reply in a way that I think gently calls them out and tries to defuse, only to delete immediately after replying in fear of conflict—that's like 75% of my deleted comments.
Of course caveats apply, I remember ~~but cannot find~~ this image with an angry person capslocking in understandable disagreement with Hitler saying "but that's just my civil opinion that we should gas all the jews, i do not get why you're so emotional,"
and sealioning is a thing, but I see way more snark towards people engaging in good faith than I see sealions or awful people who actually deserve it. (And part of why I delete, in case I think it's unnecessary rudeness but it is actually a Hitler tone policing the anti-Hitler guy type situation and I just don't realize it.)
In the examples that you mentioned, I do agree. I suppose I should have added a caveat like I "usually" take the initiative to comment, except where it seems obvious so the response is not necessary or helpful for anyone.
I also want to do people the courtesy of explaining my disagreement but I also do not want to be that "reasons I downvoted you" Reddit copypasta
the pasta
I just downvoted your comment.FAQ
What does this mean?
The amount of karma (points) on your comment and Reddit account has decreased by one.
Why did you do this?
There are several reasons I may deem a comment to be unworthy of positive or neutral karma. These include, but are not limited to:
Rudeness towards other Redditors, Spreading incorrect information, Sarcasm not correctly flagged with a /s.
Am I banned from the Reddit?
No - not yet. But you should refrain from making comments like this in the future. Otherwise I will be forced to issue an additional downvote, which may put your commenting and posting privileges in jeopardy.
I don't believe my comment deserved a downvote. Can you un-downvote it?
Sure, mistakes happen. But only in exceedingly rare circumstances will I undo a downvote. If you would like to issue an appeal, shoot me a private message explaining what I got wrong. I tend to respond to Reddit PMs within several minutes. Do note, however, that over 99.9% of downvote appeals are rejected, and yours is likely no exception.
How can I prevent this from happening in the future?
Accept the downvote and move on. But learn from this mistake: your behavior will not be tolerated on Reddit.com. I will continue to issue downvotes until you improve your conduct. Remember: Reddit is privilege, not a right.
Also I just realized I am replying to a 2-year-old thread! I got here via searching for a new search engine, left it in my open tabs, came back to it, and totally forgot it was an old thread. Thanks for engaging with me anyways!
Upvoting!
Wow, somehow I never came across that copypasta. Perhaps that's a good thing, for the sake of my sanity?:-P