That's because of discrimination and toxicity, neither of which are helped by banning trans women.
Honestly I've got like 7 different addresses spread across 3 different providers. Email isn't important enough for me to worry too much about privacy and control. It's mostly just a place to collect spam for me these days.
I did email for about a year. Sucked shit so I cut my losses and closed the thing down.
I think that's what's kept me at KeePass rather than moving to something like Bitwarden. Since it's file-level encryption, anything that can serve files can also serve my KeePass database. When I upgrade servers or change to different services, restoring my database is as simple as throwing the file into that new service and going on with my life.
I'm guessing you don't have much experience with FOSS software. It's volunteer driven, with a set of passionate maintainors at the helm. Much like Linux.
Seconded for that. Parted Magic is so nice that when they went paid, I ponied up immediately, which is saying something from my cheap ass.