Most of these arguments are conflating AI with the people using them.
Labor exploitation, scraping without consent, military contracts, surveillance policing, grid strain and hardware prices driven up by speculation are real harms. But none of them are properties of a statistical language model.
They come from concentrated capital and state power, and whatever technology arrives next will get used the same way.
Just like we've seen everything in your list, done by the same people, using different technology.
We have had hardware speculation during the crypto craze.
These same companies (Google) have been taking your data without consent to power their surveillance advertising.
Datacenters have always been power and water hungry, the ones powering LLMs are exactly the same ones that exactly the same companies have been building since the Internet began.
Essentially every major advance in technology has been used for state surveillance and in the military. AI is simply the latest capability.
Models reproducing licensed code, poor code quality and floods of junk contributions. These are real problems with the technology itself. And the solution to most of these things is to iterate, build better models trained on consentually obtained data.
Yes, you should still be mad at what the AI companies are doing. I am too. Just keep in mind that Google was evil before Gemini and will certainly be on the forefront of fuckery with whatever technology comes next as long as people keep getting tricked into misdirecting their anger onto the technology.