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I was debating some CHUD weirdo and he mentioned he was Italian American and went on to call him a greaseball guido who should back in the kitchen and help his noona make-ah the meatballs. I guess I hit a nerve.

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[–] SteamedHamberder@hexbear.net 40 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Started watching “The Sopranos” with my wife. Midway through season 2, she loses interest saying it’s all “Were gonna getta dose guys, but what if dose guys are gonna get us??” And she’s not entirely wrong.

[–] microfiche@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I never watched Sopranos when it came out. Figured I'd give it a shot the last time or two I was looking for a new weekend binge. I got two episodes in and just shut it off. Your wife is not wrong, comrade.

[–] GrouchyGrouse@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It has its moments but I think a lot of people over emphasize the comedy, which was only about 30% and only half of it intentional

I mean I can sit there and laugh endlessly at a bunch of washed up guido organ grinders waxing poetic about noodles and sauce but it’s not everyone’s cup of joe.

[–] SteamedHamberder@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think you mean macaroni and gravy.

[–] ClathrateG@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

Different strokes for different folks, but S1 has significantly different vibe to the other seasons and even within the season as they find their footing with what they want the show to be

[–] came_apart_at_Kmart@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

i was young when it came out and it didn't hold my interest at all. i watched it again, binged, during early covid lock downs when i was like officially middle aged and more interested in the portrayal of the institutions and subtle digs at This Thing, how its traumas move through generations. i was very into it that time.

Sopranos is a curious show and I think it was successful because it has two kinds of fans: people who are watching it because it shits all over its characters and displays their cowardice, complicity, and corruption openly while letting them blather on endlessly about how they value family, honor, and community when they're all just a bunch of lazy fuckups with no compunction who would turn on their best friends to get ahead and have zero self-awareness. truly the slime of humanity, cannibalizing their families and communities to squeeze a buck from working people. Tony ascends because he slightly examines himself after his panic attacks and uses what he learns to manipulate others more effectively. it is fucking darkly hilarious, but ultimately very grim TV under that lens. definitely not for everyone, but if you're in the mood it's good, uncommon TV.

then there are fans who think Tony and This Thing are super cool... even aspirational, if only they would be a little better at what they do, they could come out on top and the crapo di crapo of all NY/NJ. they like "the hits and tits", they like the revenge and retribution (constant) and watch it on those terms. i would find it unwatchable, but you see those people in the comments on youtube clips getting upset when someone puts forth a theory that Phil Leotardo is deeply closeted or defends AJ as being one of the less immoral, more sensitive characters, given his upbringing.

[–] into_highest_invite@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

the man literally comes out of the closet to kill what's his name

[–] came_apart_at_Kmart@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

for real. also, at the wake when that one dude is watching body builders flex (for whatever insane reason), Phil gets pissed.

a short, hilarious bit

if you find one of the youtube videos of phil, --maybe even the one where he emerges from the closet to sexually torture and kill his own son-in-law for being gay--you might find one of the arguments where some absolute simpleton is like "Phil Leotardo isn't gay! He's a traditional family man!"

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[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A premium gabagool?

[–] TUMBLE_BUS@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

That and Tony yelling at his therapist "why are you asking all these questions!!!"

Probably good to stop in season 2 because partway through season 3 there's a

CW SA descriptiongraphicremoved shown on camera for an extended period of time and then it is handled horribly by every character and it just really felt like the writers didn't know what the hell they were writing about.

[–] Zoift@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

"Right to Fredo of speech" kelly

[–] 9to5@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago

fredophobia on hexbear ? Its more likely than you think sans-wink

Mama mia, you triggered his impasta syndrome

[–] hello_hello@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago

go-ahead Make another go at the expense of italian-americans, see where that gets you. anti-italian-discrimination

In this house, Christopher Columbus was a hero, end of story!

[–] Lussy@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

This is the only type of woke I’ve ever actually seen being exercised.

Honestly, it’s so easy to get banned if you’re a leftist on Reddit. I’ve gotten banned so many times, to the point where they’ve blocked off my phone and computer’s emac if I understand things correctly. You literally cannot venture out of the niche left subreddit. Even if you’re in r/flowers you’ll be sus’d out fast.

[–] alexandra_kollontai@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

If it's at that point for you I think it might just be your personality.

[–] RedDawn@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No, I’ve had similar experience and it comes down mostly to people or bots spewing fascist talking points all over that site and if you challenge it at all you’re banned pretty quickly.

[–] Tabitha@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago

if you're not getting banned, then you're not posting

[–] Lussy@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago

I mean, normally I’d default to my personality being the problem lol, but when the other party is reddit I’m gonna stick to my guns here and defiantly plead innocent to all allegations of impropriety

[–] Tabitha@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Lussy@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

rat-salute just doing my dooty

[–] CliffordBigRedDog@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago
[–] loitering@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Boardwalk Empire taught me so many old timey slurs to use against Italians and the Irish.

[–] krolden@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago
[–] orlando@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago

ayyy woah what's that matter with you guyz, he's just tryina dismantle the fascismo over here like his grandpappy. what is this guy mussolini or somethin' c'mooon

[–] distal@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

They were right to, that is no way of addressing a wop!

[–] loitering@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago

They're called guineas, and they vote with the Tammany Hall machine.

[–] loitering@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

Mama mia! That's-a de boolsheeite.

[–] lntl@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago

Oddly enough, my first Reddit ban was for a statement I made about the Italian government as well

[–] sleeplessone@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I engage in it pretty frequently myself, but what is with the (un?)ironic dago hate anyway? Is it because we're a bunch of spineless worms who want to have all of the privileges of being white while still gesturing to oppression from almost a century ago to hang onto their woke cred?

[–] Johnny_Arson@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Is it because guineas are a bunch of spineless worms who want to have all of the privileges of being white while still gesturing to oppression from almost a century ago to hang onto their woke cred?

Yes same with "Irish" Americans.

[–] TheoryofChange@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Can we not use the word guineas, even ironically? On the theory of ironic racism is still racism. The point of the insult is saying Italians aren't white and are lesser by comparing them to africans because they have dark skin. People can keep saying dago, guido, wop etc of course.

[–] sleeplessone@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Sorry, I fixed the comment.

[–] Nopeace@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

https://youtu.be/UiX8gizzfO0 Ayyyyy, oooooh. That's anti Italian discrimination!!

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[–] RMO@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago

Si scrive nonna, tu stronzo!