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[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 117 points 3 weeks ago (16 children)

Probably Nickelback. I'm no fan, but they seem to get the most hate of anyone just for being mediocre.

[–] ThisUsernameKillsFascists@piefed.social 70 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I did a studio session with them about 20 years ago, when they were still pretty popular and before they were widely considered to be a joke, but I was not a fan. When the studio I was working for called me to do the session, my wife said, “Watch - they will end up being really nice guys and you will end up liking them more because of it.” In reality, they were arrogant dickheads, and I hated them all the more ever since.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 21 points 3 weeks ago

Well, knowing they're all assholes helps me not feel bad for all the hate they get.

[–] radiofreebc@lemmy.world 20 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Really? When i worked with them, they were all really nice guys. Surprised to hear that.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 18 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

People at the height of their own popularity tend to be dicks. My mom organized some event with Neil degrasse Tyson during his hay day and said he was pretty insufferable.

[–] shartgargle@lemmy.zip 25 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

He uhh always has been and still is as far as I'm aware. He talks down to everyone, even the camera. And him tearing apart movies was the most obnoxious thing. We know Neil, we know.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 11 points 3 weeks ago

When I heard him talk about his relationship with Carl Sagan and how he was one of the very few people that were willing to invest time and energy in him as a black man in STEM at the time he made a little more sense to me. I feel like having to fight for it has probably made him a lil crispy around the edges.

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[–] hypnicjerk@piefed.social 29 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

i understand that nickelback is low hanging fruit, but limp bizkit is right there

[–] Bhaelfur@lemmy.world 31 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Oh please, Limp Bizkit only did it for the nookie.

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[–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I don’t think I’ve ever heard anybody hate on Limp Bizkit like I’ve heard them hate on Nickelback.

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[–] dan1101@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago (8 children)

I unironically love the music of Limp Bizkit, but Fred Durst seems like a shitty person in many ways.

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[–] hayvan@piefed.world 19 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Hating them is a meme I guess. I don't mind them.

[–] areakode@riskeratspizza.com 22 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I think the whole hating on Nickelback started with people who thought Nickelback was the best band in the world. They're like the most average band in the world. They're not bad, but they aren't particularly good either.

[–] Anchorxiety@reddthat.com 10 points 3 weeks ago

I agree. They have some solid songs, especially the ones with lyrics dealing with more serious subject matter. But they're just not amazing either.

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[–] Jarlsburg@lemmy.world 10 points 3 weeks ago

I read somewhere once that their agent would book them at any festival that would accept them. That lead to them getting booed a lot where they didn't match the rest of the lineup. People began to anticipate them and became a heel type character to avid concert goers.

[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 9 points 3 weeks ago

and like, they're not even that bad

Foo Fighters, for some reason, are fucking loved, and yet if you actually listen to their albums, they're just... meh

they got a few good songs and a lot of things I never want to hear again. and that's coming from someone whose favourite band was them for a very long time. not to mention they sound like shit live

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[–] Okokimup@lemmy.world 54 points 3 weeks ago (12 children)

Imagine Dragons. Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but my understanding is:

They picked up hate for being marketed like they're some kind of super hard rock, even though they're not. But their music is good for the genre it is. The lead singer was raised Mormon, but is now an activist for LGBT youth.

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 41 points 3 weeks ago

i think they picked up the hate for being played everywhere and a lot of their songs sound the same. Interesting lore on the lead singer, that does make me like them more

[–] KRAW@linux.community 24 points 3 weeks ago

I always thought it was because they essentially pioneered the "rock music for commercials" genre

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 13 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

That thunder song was legitimately terrible.

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[–] JustPlainDave@lemmy.zip 37 points 3 weeks ago (13 children)

I've met so many people who hate Meatloaf. I think Bat out of Hell is a top 10 album.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 16 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

The songs are good. The person was a POS that I'm glad is gone. Sadly. So many musicians of that era are maga turds.

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[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

I think I only really know two Meatloaf songs, and I'm not particularly fond of either of them.

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[–] gigastasio@sh.itjust.works 26 points 3 weeks ago (16 children)

Ghost comes to mind. I’ve never had a problem with them and a lot of their songs I think are pretty good. Seems like they get shit on a lot though.

[–] Underage9625@piefed.zip 23 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I can’t listen to Ghost because someone said they sounded like Scooby-Doo chase music.

[–] 0ops@piefed.zip 23 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

They're basically Dark ABBA

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[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 11 points 3 weeks ago

I love ghost. Great songwriting and their mixes are fuckin solid (Andy Wallace of course)

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[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 26 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Hanson. Their curse was that Mmmbop became THE hit early in their career. Their later stuff is in fact alright and with a lot more skill involved than a single repeated hook.

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[–] wjrii@lemmy.world 24 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

I'm sure "most hated" has already been covered, so I'll go farther down the list and pick one that's a little hated and IMHO more than "not bad": Crash Test Dummies.

Mmm Mmm Mmm Mmm gets clowned on by people who remember it, but (1) it's pretty good, and (2) CTD's first three albums are full of super catchy folk-pop-rock with decent lyrics. Some of the third album, and then subsequent stuff gets deeper and deeper into Brad Roberts' then-current interests and generally doesn't grab me, but more power to him.

Mmm Mmm Mmm Mmm itself was undoubtedly picked to be sonically polarizing and grab more attention than some of the slightly less "Crash Test Dummyish" tracks.

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[–] joranm1@lemmy.zip 22 points 3 weeks ago

Lars Ulrich of Metallica is I think the most hated metal musician today, with the Napster case and his recent performances which are way too snare-heavy if you ask me (some would use the word "lazy").

But the large majority of the metal scene acts as if he was the worst drummer ever, which is obviously not the case. If you go and listen to Metallica's 80s and early 90s stuff, including bootlegs of live performances, this drummer is more than capable, but he also invented a lot of fills and patterns that came to be used prominently by others, like Mike Portnoy.

So I'm not saying this in defense of the guy - don't know him personally - but that's a blatant case of people not listening with their ears if you ask me...

[–] Caribou@slrpnk.net 22 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Nickelback hate was pretty bad but got better I feel. Animals is a banger.

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[–] HeartyOfGlass@piefed.social 20 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

Smash Mouth wound up getting overplayed with "All Star", but their debut Fush Yu Mang is excellent. Way better than you'd expect, and it's worth a listen if just for their first radio hit, "Walkin On The Sun".

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[–] Tiral@lemmy.world 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Justin Bieber. He can play like 5 instruments incredibly well. He didn't handle fame very well and they kinda forced him to be what he is.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 13 points 3 weeks ago

He's like the dude version of Brittney. Like they even publicly sexualized him too it just looked a little different because he's male.

[–] dan1101@lemmy.world 14 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Taylor Swift, the modern version. She used to be a genuinely talented singer songwriter but has gone way too far into the popstar life. I remember her playing solo songs on an acoustic guitar, and she was good.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 14 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Currently Imagine Dragons. But I remember when Nickleback also was the butt of many jokes despite not being a terrible band.

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[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I mean people like Chris Brown and Kanye both make themselves hated for things outside their music. Then there are people like Prince who would act like they were all high and mighty and have his staff tell everyone to not look him in the eye or even look at him. Was his music good, sure... But if someone told me not to look at him I'd mark it as a red flag and not buy his shit.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

The "Don't look them in the eye" rule is as misunderstood as Van Halen's removal of brown M&Ms.

When famous people have to navigate through hallways, etc., they have to pass others, and many people try to get their attention, so they can say Hi, tell them how much they love the artist, etc. Perhaps they just want to catch their attention and smile.

That artist is a person, like anyone else. They have a lot on their mind, and they are probably trying to get somewhere, to do something, and they are concentrating on that. They don't want to have to stop for every person, smile, say Hi, hear about how important they are, yadda yadda. They just want to get on with their thing.

Think about how you would feel if you had something important on your mind, with other people counting on you, and waiting for you, and you have to stop and act polite with every random stranger who wants to interact with you, so they can go home and tell everybody. Is it any wonder why celebrities are late to everything?

So they tell their staff to keep people from bothering them, and the easiest way to do that is to simply prohibit anyone from trying to look them in the eye. Obviously, if the VIP approaches you, asks you questions, looks you in the eye, that rule is off.

The M&M thing was because VanHalen had the biggest stage rig ever at the time, and they needed specific electric, lighting, etc. qualifications. They would arrive, and find venues inadequate because the venue didn't bother to read the contract. So they started adding the M&M thing so they knew as soon as they walked in the door if the venue had read the contract. If there were brown M&Ms, then it meant that the venue either hadn't read the contract, or had decided to ignore whatever clauses they felt like. Either way was a broken contract problem.

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

Dudes staff would message everyone who would would be in his vacinity at award shows to tell them not to look him in the eye. He's not performing, he's sitting in the stands. Sounds more like he was on the spectrum and couldn't cope with people well.

[–] baahb@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

How dare you! Why would you suggest that a virtuoso prodigy with serious interpersonal antisocial quirks might be on the autism spectrum

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[–] serpineslair@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago (11 children)

At least in the thrash scene, Anthrax gets shit on a lot for being part of the Big 4, however I fucking love them, even though they had a period where every release was dogshit. Their early stuff is peak thrash, which is good because nowadays they mainly stick to playing their early stuff. Still deserving of their position. Though sometimes I wonder if it should be a Big 5, including Exodus, who were one of the first.

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[–] Malica@lemmy.zip 11 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

NOFX gets a lot of flack, I love their music.

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[–] RaoulDuke25@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Moby. Play is a great album and I play that shit at least once a year.

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