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I love waffles :3 easily my favorite breakfast food. Developing different recipes has been so much fun! Lately I've been having one with lots of ground flaxseed and it has been keeping me quite regular. I'll have one or two of those in the morning with some tofu breakfast/lunch "meat" and a bit of cheapo syrup. There also was a version with pea protein powder that worked out pretty well but I neglected to write down the recipe, oops.


Vegan waffle recipe

Makes 4-5 "standard" belgian waffles, actual amount will vary based on what kind of waffle iron you use.

Equipment

2 bowls, preferably with pouring spouts

Whisk

Measuring cups and spoons

Waffle Iron

Optional: Using a rubber spatula/scraper will help when pouring the batter into the waffle iron.

Dry mix:

1 cup white flour

2-3 tablespoons ground flaxseed

1 teaspoon salt

1 teaspoon baking powder

Optional: 1-2 teaspoon powdered cinnamon or blend of "sweet" spices.

Wet ingredients:

1 cup plant milk (see notes)

1 tablespoon neutral tasting cooking oil

Optional: 1/2 tablespoon breakfast syrup or granulated sugar will add some flavor and improve the texture of the crust.

Instructions:

  1. Mix dry ingredients in a bowl until combined, set aside

  2. In a seperate bowl, preferably one with a pouring spout, whisk the wet ingredients together vigorously, if using granulated sugar whisk until it is dissolved.

  3. Add the dry ingredients to the wet ingredient bowl and mix until combined but still slightly lumpy. Allow the batter to sit for at least five minutes so the flaxseed can hydrate.

  4. Make the waffles, portions and waffle iron operation will vary. Consult the manual or wing it carefully.

Notes:

  • This recipe may take longer to cook fully compared to other mixes. Ultimately the steam produced by the cooking process is always an accurate indicator of doneness.

  • The dry mix can be made well ahead of time, a double batch fits nicely into a 32 oz deli container.

  • Adjusting the amount of plant milk will make the waffles more or less dense, experiment and adjust to preferences. 2/3 cup dry mix to 1/2 cup wet mix (or 1 cup to 3/4 cup) is my preferred ratio.

  • The batter keeps well overnight if refrigerated in an airtight container but you will need to add a little more liquid and stir thoroughly because it will be very thick.

  • The batter dries like cement, wash the bowl immediately after using.


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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

if you have a preferred week please tell me

BountifulEggnog* (9/14 - 9/20)
sodium_nitride* (9/21-9/27)
SockOlm* (9/28 - 10/04)
SwitchyandWitchy* (10/05 - 10/11)
Eco* (10/12 - 10/18)
LoveSupreme* (10/19 - 10/25)
Shaleesh* (10/26 - 11/1)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] sleeplessone@lemmy.ml 28 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I did my first E shot today!

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[–] kisstrel@hexbear.net 27 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Um hi everybody I think I might be a enby can I hang out here

crush

shy

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 25 points 1 week ago (6 children)

I know I've not been commenting or scrolling hex recently as much. It's just cause I'm spending a ton of time with my gf/wife and I really love her. Hours and hours on end everyday. I'm happy to have her.

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago

Girl moding in a skirt yesterday. I felt cute. And nice. It was worth it. Went to the big city to get clothes. Ate lunch instead.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 23 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Tried joking with my sister (early 20s) about the kirkiversary and apparently she was pretty upset about the phone call. Can't be serious

The rest of my family is pretty bothered by it too lmao. Tried explaining his beliefs but they were like "well he was probably clipped out of context" you didn't even know who this irrelevant fascist was until he got murked.

[–] RondoRevolution@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Tried explaining his beliefs but they were like "well he was probably clipped out of context" you didn't even know who this irrelevant fascist was until he got murked.

It says a lot about them when their first reaction is to doubt you instead of using that opportunity to educate themselves. My family acts the exact same way, and this shit pisses me off to no end. The moment I do the same to them I'm in the wrong lol.

In your position I would be spamming them with enough proof about KKKirk being a fascist they wouldn't be able to deny it.

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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 23 points 1 week ago (9 children)

these days trans mega is all like wife this, wife that... wife don't you go read some theory πŸ™„

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[–] PraiseCorn@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Day 9 of hrtMy tiddies have ACTIVATED, God they feel so weird and sore, I literally don't wanna touch them because it feels like someone poured hot gravy on my tits doggirl-tears

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Theres this one bar in town that does vegan pub fare, they dont advertise theyre vegan, its actually not even listed that theyre vegan on the menu but like as youre reading it you realize... none of these have meat or animal products (they have like vegan chicken wings or veggie burgers or vegan mozza sticks). Anyway, I really like it and I wanna eat their food tonight but its so far away...

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I've heard this is a thing, apparently a lot of non vegans will snub vegan food if its labeled vegan.

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[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (6 children)

deathMy Papa died this morning

6-12 months was a lie

"He isn't in any pain" was a lie

I was notified by a text message, when I called my parents gave me all the gory details and asked me "so how are you feeling?". Bewildered, I said "My grandfather just died."

Uproarious laughter. End of call.

I hate these fucking people. I hate them so. fucking. much.

Edit: okay there was a little bit more communication before the call ended but it was some shit about the trip they were about to go on.

Emotionally it might as well have been "hahahaha" followed by a click

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[–] RondoRevolution@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

I Saw The TV Glow... I... I... I don't know what to say. Why can't I stop crying? I'm crying writing this, I... I don't even know what I'm feeling right now, I'm just crying non-stop. Half the time it felt like something was flying over my head, the other half it felt like watching myself on screen, always afraid, always lonely, always the different. I never felt like this watching a movie before.

spoilerEven by the end all she could do was conform and apologize. catgirl-cry

Why did you not believe her?

Why did you repress?

Why did you keep conforming?

You deserved so much more than that.

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[–] WhoaSlowDownMaurice@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Me and my gf made some vegan carrot soup but only this mega gets to see it : )

Tvp bacon on top ofc

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago (2 children)

parents, coming out, transphobia,Coming out to my parents went okay. Better than expected to be honest, but that's kind of a low bar. They don't really respect my gender, but they still want to have a relationship. I didn't want to fight about it right now. I know that navigating this relationship is going to be difficult moving forward, and I am going to need to assert my boundaries and autonomy at various points, but I am glad that I no longer have to hide so much from my parents.

[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

spoiler

"They don't really respect m[e], but they still want to have a relationship"

banger, top 10 parent moments

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[–] xenon@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago (2 children)

apparently vrchat has "age verification" (mass surveillance) now

and its partnered with fucking persona (company backed by palantir and the fascist us government)

and they make you pay for their shitty subscription service to even do it

and somehow people think this is a good thing?

truly this is why we need to redacted-1redacted-2 the petit bourgeoisie

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[–] AntifaCatgirlSuperSoldier@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago (6 children)

People who care too much about assigned genders of birth are like eugenicists. "Uhmm well you see the skull of AFAB are 0.67% smaller on average so therefore they exhibit more care towards 3.7 year old male boys" this is how you sound like when you do this btw.

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[–] AntifaCatgirlSuperSoldier@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm at the stage of considering transitioning through witch craft

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

the struggle is real trans-sad

[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Sometimes I feel like I don't really fit into the site culture and I embarrass myself whenever I post. I like this site and won't be leaving though.

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

being embarrassing is hexbear culture

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

Wow you sound american af

doggirl-tears cri kitty-cri-screm

I showed her my customer service voice...

[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

CW: Anxiety, coming out, parents, religious traumaI sent a letter to come out to my parents, and it arrived at their house yesterday. I was pretty conciliatory in the letter, but I did tell them that I didn't want to talk to them for a few days after they would receive the letter because I was too anxious to deal with their initial reactions. I shut off my phone, and since my friends and work communicate over other platforms (Discord, Slack, etc...) I am probably going to try to leave it off until Friday. They are very conservative/evangelical and I am really dreading their response, but I didn't want to have to hide my life from them. I know I am going to be alright. I have a wonderful fiancee, supportive friends, a supportive workplace, a good job and a vibrant queer community here. I just wish that I didn't have to deal with this dread.

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[–] RondoRevolution@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thinking of coming out to my mom today. I'm still deciding and I'm getting anxious. doggirl-cry

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Happy kirkmas eve to all who celebrate

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[–] sisatici@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

so you people hate pancakes (jk)

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 19 points 1 week ago

Holy shit my new school's graduate health insurance fully covers GAC

It does require a diagnosis which sucks, but I have one of those already so my estrogen is just straight up free now

[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (6 children)

All EU vendors we could find are either down or out of stock just when we were trying to help our gf diy catgirl-flop

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[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Think we hit a capillary when injecting, like 1 or 2 drops of blood came out when normally theres close to none doggirl-sweat we assume thats not a big deal but just to make sure, its not a big deal right?

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[–] LoveSupreme@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The amount of casual sexism in the Mass Effect series is fucking bonkers I despise 2000s and 2010s culture. Woke and Me Too arrived too late

spoilerIt's okay, I'll still keep drinking that garbage

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[–] tithonis@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago

Since we're all wifeposting this week I'm throwing my hat in the ring: I love my gay wife. We may actually finish another set of Polizeiruf 110 translations someday. Who knew a fondness for East German Krimis and the fanfic everyone who knows me keeps trying to bully me into writing would lead to this? Life is weird. Be gay, be strange, see what happens.

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (6 children)
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[–] xenon@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

everything kinda sucks but i love my wife and as long as i have her i can make it through anything doggirl-grin

i started playing the witcher 3 recently (just to find out they are doing a remaster update at the end of the month so im gonna have to restart lol) and this is like prime trans experience tbh

everybody i pass on the street calls me a freak, organized religions want to burn me alive but also need for their agendas, and i have magic powers and hunt monsters with beautiful women

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[–] LoveSupreme@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

There's shit I want to vent about but fuck it, I'm heaving the best hair day I've had in a while and I don't want to let a combination of bottom dysphoria and self loathing be my contribution to the mega on this fine kirktember 11th

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[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

there's this cishet guy in my dnd group who's just like a real fuckboy lib (both him and his character) and as i've gotten more and more fed up with him i've started tossing out shade during sessions, which maybe is petty idk whatever

was talking with the dm (who's pissed at him rn because he did a bunch of chuunyi shit last session) and like apparently the guy is like legit scared of getting confronted by me??? like lol. lmao

i am the scary transsexual your daddy warned you about ig x3

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

Talking with my gf is the sweetest, most wonderful thing in the world kitty-cri

[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

Waiting for my gf to wake up, fell asleep, made her wait instead catgirl-flop

[–] LoveSupreme@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Was going to the malt shop with my best gal when the local band of brigands plundered the caravan

agony-turbo

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

welcome comrades, come get your mandated trans arts from People's Commissariat for Gender Education and Forceful Feminization

TADC she's just like me frfr (β•₯﹏β•₯)

by steredmoon

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Painted my nails a plum pudding colour (the literal name of it, lol) and put a glitter top coat on.

They look nice and hopefully they last a while.

[–] xenon@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

waking up before my wife doggirl-cry what has the world come to

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[–] sleeplessone@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

spoilerLooking back over my life, I can see I've mutilated my mind so it could better fit in my body.

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[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (7 children)

ok so everyone’s having a shitty time, it’s not just me?

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

Coming out, anxiety, parents, religious trauma, could use some advice.So, I sent a coming out letter to my parents last week, and after reading it (and respecting the cooling-off period I asked for) we've scheduled a time for a phone call today. I don't know how exactly they will react. It probably won't be supportive, given how conservative/evangelical they are. I really don't know how I am going to handle this, and could use some general advice.

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