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[–] Triumph@fedia.io 126 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

Let me guess, their "expert" says to double down.

[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 86 points 3 weeks ago (20 children)

In many cases, parent-child estrangements are a cycle — "they'll re-engage, then they'll fall out again," Blake said. "One of the key things from the research is that adult children will reach out and if they see nothing has changed, they'll estrange again."

No, I actually think it's a pretty good article, and comes surprisingly close to outright saying the parents are the problem

[–] Signtist@bookwyr.me 34 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

In my experience, even when I've framed it as "something needs to change" to try to be less direct in saying that they need to change, they still just say "correct, you do need to change." Hopefully some people will get it, though.

[–] criss_cross@lemmy.world 33 points 3 weeks ago

Lmao that’s the hardest thing is realizing that there’s no magic words that will ever pierce their skull. They keep acting like you speak a foreign language because it’s easier to fake “not getting it” rather than come out and say the truth which is “I don’t value you enough to change my behavior”.

Once I gave up and quit my life got a lot easier.

[–] LostCarcosan@lemmy.today 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

A few years ago, my dad was upset about how "you can't say man or woman anymore. How are you gonna call the cops on someone robbing you? Say 'It was a person average height!' Or they'll arrest you for using the word man!"

I just asked if he was fucking stupid and does that sound like something that would even remotely happen, then said I was leaving if that's how he thinks and left. Ignored any attempts at contact until he apologized and admitted he might be a little incorrect, which was progress enough to start.

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[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 7 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Do they ever hit you with this one?

"Take responsibility for your actions/decisions!" While ignoring their own responsibility in it...

[–] superglue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

And ignoring the fact that they worship a man who is famous for never taking responsibility for anything, and that is exactly part if the problem in the first place.

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[–] cmbabul@slrpnk.net 60 points 3 weeks ago

I wouldn’t be shocked if they said to kidnap said adult children and send them to reeducation camps brought to you by PragerU

[–] FedX@quokk.au 14 points 3 weeks ago

Even better, it was "hostage negotiation tactics."

[–] Burninator05@lemmy.world 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

If my in-laws watch this show the expert must be telling people to play the victim card whenever direct communication happens and post passive aggressive memes on Facebook.

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 6 points 3 weeks ago

That's the narcissist playbook, congrats you have narcs in your life

[–] A_norny_mousse@piefed.zip 11 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

and use any leverage you got, emotional or material. (It was both in my case)

No, seriously, I'd love to know what the "expert" said.

[–] rainwall@piefed.social 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

They quoted the same Texas psychologist for both, and lordy does he come off as much more of a far right loon in the latter.

For context, he blames "victim culture," "gender ideology," "therapy" and "tiktok" for estrangement. Pretty clear to see where his biases lie.

[–] BillCheddar@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

All of his arguments boil down to "Keep your kids from finding support and you can keep them on your Boomer Plantation forever!"

[–] postmateDumbass@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

You just reminded me not to call my mother.

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[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 6 points 3 weeks ago

"Therapy is so bad for the children! It's turning them against their abusive parents by allowing them to start the process of healing, after which they begin to realize that healing will always be limited to a cycle of progression and regression until they cut out the toxic people who repeatedly sabotage their growth every time they start to show improvement. I'm so tired of this victim culture where the children of abusive parents act like they're the victims! Why can't they just take responsibility for their own decisions, such as being born to a particular family, or being neglected and constantly put down by the very people who are supposed to be a source of safety and stability in their lives? When I was their age everyone in the neighborhood's dads were all war veterans with PTSD who would beat the shit out of us and send us to the store to buy milk and cigarettes. We all turned out fine! Now get off my lawn."

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[–] heartSagan5@lemmy.zip 10 points 3 weeks ago

Yup, “stand your ground” with that opinion so we can rule you via divide and conquer and your dependency on feeding your narrative.

[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 weeks ago

I want TV's with cameras to make sure that all people are watching the two minutes hate in the morning.

--the current administraion probably

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 63 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I had a read through, and they’re entirely not stating anything about “quit being fascist,” naturally.

[–] SpacePanda@mander.xyz 55 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Or taking responsibility, also feels like it manipulates the narrative. Reading some of this is giving me PTSD anxiety from dealing with my parents. Knowingly trapping you into proving how they make you feel. Because you can't come up with examples on the spot when they corner you means you must be making this up.

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[–] A_norny_mousse@piefed.zip 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Nothing about politics=>ethics at all really. It's pretty boilerplate stuff for how to communicate constructively.

The article 5 reasons people cut off their own parents is much more interesting and, erm, problematic.

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[–] SpacePanda@mander.xyz 47 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

FauxNews parents article

Expert is from Texas, just kinda want to put that out there lol article is about how you would expect it to be feels a bit manipulative while also sounding professional.

[–] protist@retrofed.com 9 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I'd just like to say that being from Texas by itself doesn't indicate anything. Many million people here are not Republicans

[–] Blum0108@lemmy.world 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

No, but the Republicans are extra shitty there.

[–] protist@retrofed.com 7 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

Are they though? Republicans are awful everywhere. I also think the Texas Legislature is a surprising place, the House in particular, where rural Republicans align with Democrats on a number of issues and regularly kill bills together. Of course none of that stuff hits national headlines though, just the bad stuff that gets through. All I'm saying is thank gods I don't live in Florida

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[–] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago (11 children)

Never met anyone who was proud to be from Texas that wasn't a massive piece of shit. Feels like everyone decent living there hates it and wants to leave.

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[–] zloubida@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 weeks ago

I shouldn't have read the comments.

[–] J92@lemmy.world 38 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

"Just ignore your adult child. Fox news will take care of you into your advancing old age."

[–] veni_vedi_veni@lemmy.world 10 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Im morbidly fascinated how mainstream media will pivot as their primary audience dies out. They aren't long for new media formats, so maybe they will die out as well

[–] BillCheddar@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Fox News is not mainstream media. Fox News is right-wing propaganda, explicitly set up to steer the country into the fascism that is currently eating the Constitution.

[–] SeriousMite@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

Sadly it’s mainstream propaganda.

[–] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

Fox News is not mainstream media.

Fox News was the top news outlet for 5 years in a row as of 2020. How is that not mainstream??

Fox News is right-wing propaganda, explicitly set up to steer the country into the fascism that is currently eating the Constitution.

What part of that precludes it from being mainstream?

I hate to be the one to tell you, but the right wing propaganda machine setup to prevent another Watergate scandal worked better than the creators ever could have expected.

[–] porous_grey_matter@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 weeks ago

It has more viewers than any other legacy news station, it's clearly in the mainstream.

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[–] Harvey656@lemmy.world 35 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

"If someone says, ‘When you criticize my weight, I left dinner feeling really, really upset,’ that's a fact. That's the person's interpretation," he said.

I don't feel like thats an interpretation. Why call it a fact and interpretation, did you fail high-school writer?

[–] db2@lemmy.world 20 points 3 weeks ago

It's doublethink. They've been peddling it for like decades now.

[–] SpacePanda@mander.xyz 20 points 3 weeks ago

Its manipulative, its like making someone cry and then telling them feelings aren't facts.

[–] atomicorange@lemmy.world 17 points 3 weeks ago

I took it to mean that feelings are facts - meaning the parent should take it as a true statement about their child’s feelings and not try to argue with them about why their feelings are wrong.

Not well phrased at all.

[–] eggpl4nt@lemmy.world 13 points 3 weeks ago

It seems poorly worded. I think they were trying to say that the person's interpretation of what happened is a fact. Basically that someone can't handwave away how a person says they feel as if it's not true; how a person says they genuinely felt about something is true to them. I assume it is supposed to be targeted towards estranged parents who constantly dismissed their child's emotions and literally cannot understand how that is a bad thing to do.

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[–] jtrek@startrek.website 35 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

This seems a good excuse to repost his fascinating post about estrangement: https://issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-missing-reasons/

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[–] redparadise@lemmy.ml 16 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

The article's not that bad, some folk aren't happy!

[–] laz@pawb.social 9 points 3 weeks ago

Without reading more, that last one seems pretty rational at least. I imagine the 'See More' label is hiding some absolute venom though, or maybe just "it's their loss, I've no need to reflect on how my actions led to this outcome".

[–] A_norny_mousse@piefed.zip 6 points 3 weeks ago

That's the top comment under the article? Wow. Well, what else did we expect.

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[–] anarchy79@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

Murdered by words.

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