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For this week's Mega I will be sharing one of my all time favorite fighter planes: the MiG-23. This was the last single engine fighter of the USSR I believe. I will add some information about it each day.

Day 1: OriginsThe MiG-23 had the unenviable task of replacing the MiG-21. The MiG-21 was fast, maneuverable, it the most produced supersonic fighter jet of all time, and had an impressive service record with the Vietnam People's Air Force (VPAF) against the US air force. However it would need to be replaced eventually. It was a fairly small and short range fighter, and the nose intake limited the size of the radar that could be installed. It soon became clear that a new design would be needed to effectively take advantage of the new technology and manufacturing capabilities that the USSR had developed.

The MiG-23 was designed from the beginning to carry brand new technologies, even some that would not be available when the initial variants of the MiG-23 were produced. It would ultimately carry a larger and more power radar with look-down shoot-down capabilities, along with the first medium range air to air radar guided missile of the USSR: the Vympel R-23. It also featured a swing wing, allowing it to change the wing geometry in flight to suit supersonic speed and acceleration with the wings folded back, or low speed maneuverability and take off and landing performing with the wings all the way forward, or anywhere in between. A high degree of automation for the time allowed the pilot to focus on combat. One of the coolest features in my opinion though was the integration of an IR search and track system (IRST) which would allow the pilot to find and lock onto airplanes without ever turning on the radar, preventing the enemy from detecting that they're being targeted. The MiG-23 could even launch missiles from beyond visual range (barely) without ever turning its radar on, or only briefly to verify that the plane it was locking was an enemy, using the combination of the IRST and the IR guided variant of the R-23: the R-23T.


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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (10 children)

Proposed to my gf. She said yes.

cat-trans meow-bounce

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (10 children)

I made a meme about trans mega and it's frequent CW topics

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

As someone contributing to CW sex posting. Yes. Yes. YES!

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

CW sexMe sucking dick: this rules, I could do this all day, I can't believe I get to do this.

Me getting my dick sucked: oh this must be such an imposition, oh I'm so wretched

[–] 9to5@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Being a Black, schizophrenic trans woman gives me main character syndrome. I feel like some cringy 16 year olds OC.

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Went to dinner the other night, and the nice thing the waitress did was innocuously correctly gender me straight out of the gates, I said something and she replied "oh I get that girl".

Like obviously it doesn't work for all gender presentations/people but as a trans woman that immediately madee feel so much more comfortable.

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[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (5 children)

sexI met up at a bar last night with my new gf and friends (we both were at work and went separately). While we were all chatting and fiercely making out with each other, we noticed a lonely transfem sitting, looking sad and called to her to come over. She sat next to me, I asked if she needed a hug, and she proceeded to attach herself to me for the next hour-plus while my gf held her hand and whispered sweetly to her. We never found out what was going on with her, she just held onto me for dear life quietly. When our group finally decided to leave, we got her discord info so we could keep in touch, though.

Earlier, during the makeout, my gf's friend asked if she could come by afterwards to give her a massage and, of course, we said yes. Long story short, the massage was a thinly veiled ruse and we just ended up fucking (shocking, I know). I've only known my gf for a little over a month now but quickly learned it's not easy to get her to cum. However, after taking turns giving her head for a while, she started the telltale convulsing, squeezing my head onto her dick with her thighs. I felt her dick start twitching and pulsing as her whole body shook and I just kept going. I think she had 3 or 4 orgasms in quick succession before I let her off the hook. When I let up, she was shaking and quivering all over, fully nonverbal for several minutes while me and her friend cuddled her and told her how good she was. After she calmed down and was able to speak again, we turned off the lights and slept with gf in the middle being held by the two of us. In summary: im-fuckin-gay

[–] SerialExperimentsGay@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

spoiler

the massage was a thinly veiled ruse

ofc it was

and we just ended up fucking (shocking, I know)

from my experience there is actually a 50/50 chance that the thinly veiled ruse was set up to get unsuspecting transfems to play some obscure boardgame that takes 12 hours on average and requires a degree in engineering, ancient languages or city planning to parse

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

spoilerT4T rules. I have had a quiet week but next week I have some truly wild stuff planned.

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[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (8 children)

voice training

I love voice training and making my voice more androgynous / masculine!!! 😀I have really disliked my voice, it feels really good to work on... like fuck yeah im gonna sound so cool πŸ₯Ή

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (6 children)

sub/dom situationship but the domme is just forcing the sub to take care of themself and go to bed on time

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Thats basically what it revolves to, swear to god.

Oh you would do anything I tell you do? Drink more water. Get back on your exercise routine. Sleep 8 hours.

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[–] 9to5@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

cracking open a cold beer.

I call that girl dinner.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (16 children)

CW medical stuff systemic transphobia etcMentioned offhandedly to a Cis person that reconstructive vaginoplasty can have a 2 year wait here in Australia privately, with an out of pocket cost of 30k that you only get 1/3rd back if you have insurance and are lucky. They seemed like they were going to cry about the unfairness.

And I'm just like first-time

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

CW more medical stuffDid a STOPBANG to assess for sleep apnea before I have a medical review for stimulants for ADHD

The questionnaire asked me what my "birth gender" was and honestly kind of stun-locked by how stupid that was.

It should just be "sex". Like okay I could get putting "birth sex" as the question, it would be wrong, I have the risk factor of a cis women (estrogen is protective for OSA, testosterone is worse), but I would get it.

But asking "what is the performative social construct you were assigned at birth?" for this is real silly.

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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I love enbies, I love being a Lesbian Bisexual (I love women and vaguely feminine people)

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

CW Musing on transphobia (and using the lens that is used by transphobes)Do you ever noticed that TERFs and various transphobes always insist that trans lesbians are "straight men"? They contort themselves into explaining away T4T as delusion or fetishization or some other excuse.

I think because whatever way you cut it, a T4T trans lesbian can't be a "straight man".

Okay so what if I'm a man? (I'm not but what if?) then I'm a man in a gay-relationship with another man and they're being homophobic. Or I date trans women (men in their world view) and cis women? I'm a confused bisexual, still queer.

But it's unacceptable to them that I could still be queer and capable of being discriminated against, or if they're a cis lesbian/gay that I am still deserving of solidarity in their queer coalition etc.

[–] moss_icon@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

That’s me another year older πŸŽ‰

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

Really not looking forward to coming out to my family, not only for all the obvious reasons but I have been growing my hair out for over 2 years now. They are gonna know I knew and didn't tell them I was trans for all that time. Probably coming up on 3 years by the time I tell them

I should probably tell them before hrt is too obvious, so it'll have to be soon too. Fuck me.

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[–] SockOlm@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

shoutout to women experiencing the horrors

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

Today was the last day at my job of 3 and a half years. Cried a few times tbh. Can't believe I am just, leaving forever. A chapter over.

We are moving in the next week ish. I still have to get my job and apartment. Here's hoping I can make the transition to that.

[–] moh@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

I really like the old verbiage of part time/full time. Kinda like being part time over boymoder. With aspersions of full time.

[–] Dispossessed@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm going to my citiy's transfemme monthly transfemme social. Either I come home with several new lifelong friends or I get absolutely eaten alive by the coolest women I've ever met. Win-win I suppose. Wish me luck.

[–] moss_icon@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Just been on the train ride from hell.

This group of women got on and started blasting their music through their speakers, while singing off key at the top of their lungs. Train security warned them to stop because they were disturbing everyone else, so their response was to some fucking how become even louder.

This went on for over two hours, non stop. Train journeys can already be distressing for neurodivergent people. People who do shit like this should honestly be fined for it. It’s disturbing the peace.

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[–] SerialExperimentsGay@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

drama and horny and stuffAh damn. Two close friends of mine had a bit of a falling out recently. And friend A already texted friend B about it, but B was rather dismissive. And I am very definitely with A on this, but we both agree that it could easily be sorted out and should not be a big deal. So far, so good.

But now B has been in my DMs all day being kinda horny. Like, "hey Serial Experiments, I dare you to put a shock collar on me and tie me up wink wink" horny. Yes, this is the girl who recently locked me up in the cage in her living room, nice that you remembered that.

But yeah, i'm a bit conflicted rn. Normally I would just talk to A about this, but she's busy atm bc she just got back on her ADHD meds and is fixing Linux problems she didn't know she has.

[–] SerialExperimentsGay@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh damn this has progressed to the point where A has started to take her computer apart. The wonders of methylphenidate.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (6 children)

I am not getting a costume for the fair. Unfortunate.

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[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

Evil people in Web novels: I will do anything to surpass my mortal limitations!

Evil people irl: I am quite fond of psudeoscientific racism

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

All I want to do is live in a slice of life anime.

I'm hitting a few medical road blocks again and the drive to do the thing is hitting unbearable limits.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (3 children)
[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I just remembered that my dead name is in an SD card in a spacecraft orbiting the sun

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