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Corvids refers to birds belonging to the family Corvidae. Typically associated with birds in the genus Corvus, which includes crows, ravens, and loyalist primarchs, these "true crows" only make up 47 of the 135 current species. Corvids have native habitats in almost every place on Earth, and cover a wide variety of birds from the aforementioned crows and ravens to magpies, jays, and nutcrackers.

I'm gonna try and update the thread with a new corvid each day of the week, there's a lot of beautiful plummage on some corvids and also a lot of just like little gremlins, so hopefully that'll be kinda fun.

I hope everybody has a lovely week!


Monday: Little Crow (Corvus Bennetti) - Western and Central Australia

Tuesday: Hooded Crow (Corvus Corone Cornix) - Western Asia and Northern, Eastern, and Southern Europe

Wednesday: Azure-Winged Magpie (Cyanopica Cyanus) - Central and Northern China, Northern Japan and Mongolia, Southern Siberia, and Korea

Thursday (Late oops sorry): Northern Nutcracker (Nucifraga Caryocatactes) - Scandanavia, Northern Europe, Russia, Siberia, Japan

Friday: Western Jackdaw (Coloeus Monedula) - Europe, Central Asia

Saturday: Purplish-backed Jay (Cyanocorax Beecheii) - Northwestern Mexico

Sunday: Common Raven (Corvus Corax) - Deliverance

BONUS CAPSTONE BIRD : Transvolcanic Jay (Aphelocoma Ultramarina) - Southern Mexico


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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 4 points 2 months ago

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

if you have a preferred week please tell me

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm seeing a girl, T4T, it's early but it's so nice.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I can't see her again until tomorrow. She's so cute.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Soft tender breasts with no one to hold them catgirl-cry

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago

::: spoiler transfemme specific advice

My ex showed me a wonderful thing: when youre anxious or down or just need some emotional support, hold ur titties. Its reassuring and they're lovely little stressballs.

[–] WellTheresYourCobbler@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (12 children)

Just scheduled my first appointment for starting HRT!! It’s a couple months out but I’m so excited to finally be brave enough to commit :))

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[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 18 points 2 months ago (7 children)

Hello everyone! Been a while, but I finally finished my second thesis, and now I graduate this week. So I'm back to posting as before.

General updates:

Being gay with my partner is still very nice.

Holy shit when the fuck did I turn into a girl I bought a swimsuit the other day and it looked perfect on me???? I never imagined it would happen.

I got addicted to fountain pens and started another warhammer army. Help.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Congratulations! Great to hear from you again.

Holy shit when the fuck did I turn into a girl I bought a swimsuit the other day and it looked perfect on me??? I never imagined it would happen.

Pretty sure you always as long as I've seen you on here. At least that's the vibe I got.

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[–] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago

bad newsThe supreme court has ruled that the constitution does not protect trans women's civil rights, thereby proving that we are in fact women.

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (10 children)

jesus christ hexbear has been really showing its ass with misogyny of late. literally the only worthwhile things i am finding on this damn site are the trans mega and the news mega.

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[–] Des@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

was outside tonight doing some clandestine water canning of my potted plants and prepping for the heat. plenty of bugs about. little jumping spider by the hose nozzle and a big grass spider by my feet.

i gave them both a little spritz of mist. the jumper was too small to track but that grass spider ran around for a second before stopping to slurp slurp slurp.

just make sure you don't hit them with too cold water, preferably filtered if possible, and spray far away as possible but close enough they can feel the drops. some spiders will "lick" the water off their own bodies if they are thirsty. you can tell if their abdomens look a little like a deflated balloon. so yeah don't forget about the littlest things in this heat

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (11 children)

realizing you are poly like 9 years deep into a relationship with someone who is 100% monogamous

inside-im-crying

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[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

wore a dress to dinner tonight, first time in public. felt very cute πŸ₯° highly recommend

[–] Des@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (6 children)

elon's daughter is like the funny shitposter he wishes he could be. she's an endearing nerd instead of a gross one. her politics are cool and good for someone that young

somebody tell me what this means

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

being trans makes you cool? bridget-pride-stay-mad

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Look. Playing with my boobs is fun but I want someone else to play with em

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[–] PraiseCorn@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Just got a hrt prescription in 95 degree weather on 4g connection, my np probably hates me now for being a nervous overly apologetic glitchy ass .5g connection ass patient but I finally got drugs now. Now I just need to order my prescription and hope I feel better. catgirl-flop

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[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

crow i saw today

also proof i’ve touched grass

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Going to see and kiss the cutest girl very soon.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago

Con a rich man out of his fortune and fund the revolution

[–] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (6 children)

So my cousin is transphobic I'm like 99% sure, and I think she knows the way she dances around the questions she's trying to ask me. Pretends to be positive and an ally but is secretly concerned about how many trans people there are nowadays.

Kinda wanna force femme/masc/andro the entire population into being trans now /s

It's not surprising tho, she's said eco-fascist shit too in the past but again, knows it's bad I think and keeps it subtle.

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[–] insurgentrat@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I watched 'I saw the TV Glow' finally. Honestly devo that's gonna leave a mark. I think it's the first time I've felt like a character's life is relatable in a film. Not everything, but the like lying to parents to sneek time with friends where things make sense, the exploration and shying back, alienation from your own life.

It was good, I had a really solid cry after, for what might have happened if I didn't meet my wife, what happens to so many people, and I guess the confused grief of child me that I don't ever really take out of the "don't open" box in my head.

Solid film, I really recommend it.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

It did for me too. My egg had cracked but I wasn't transitioning at all. Broke down crying several times while watching.

Yup, although for me it was this site. Thank god I figured it out when I did. Living life as a depressed zombie while T poisons me further sounds horrible. Genuinely worse then death. I can't imagine waking up in 30 years not having transitioned.

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (9 children)

Is it cope to think being moderately to heavily overweight during my late teens and early twenties might have helped estrogenize me a bit?

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (4 children)

i did my first shot! (been on gel for a few years). I've had the vial sitting around for a bit but inertia/being scared of needles the normal amount made me delay. it wasn't so bad at all! really pleased with myself and i think it'll be a lot easier next week

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (5 children)

kind of weird to think that in about a week and a half I won't have to boymode anymore. and then in a week and a half after that I'll be actively girlmoding at a job where no one will know me as having been anything other than a girl.

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[–] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (7 children)

I'm becoming so much more secure in my transition as my body keeps changing and I lean how to present the way I feel on the inside. This won't be even slightly surprising to younger me, but I'm a tomboy. I'm so much happier and hopeful for the rest of this process as I've learned to accept that and the fact that I'm still a beautiful woman even if I do prefer minimal makeup, frequently wear band t-shirts and pants, and love getting dirty outside or by wrenching on something.

Now I just have to start voice training >.<

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)

have friend over

Have a good time

They leave

I immediately burst into tears

thonk-cri

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (4 children)
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[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (6 children)
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[–] tactical_trans_karen@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Gay wrath month begins today!! Don't forget to take it out on as many cishets as you can to keep them in line! Here's a list of ideas:

  • Kick them in the shin
  • Throw rotten food at them
  • Hiss every time they try to speak
  • Cut in line in front of them
  • Jug of piss (use your imagination)
  • Throw their phone in a microwave when they're not looking
  • Lure them to the park where the most aggressive geese are
  • Pepper spray
  • Get them a wrapped present, but leave the box empty
  • Spring snake in a can prank
  • Slash their tires

Have fun unleashing your wrath this month folks!

[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago

On a more serious note, july is disability pride month!

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[–] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago (3 children)

dysphoria, terf islandA "fun" effect of getting more laser is that I can't use tweezers or a facial epilator for the next year so I have bits of beard shadow again. I'm already visibly trans the timing (which I chose tbf) is extremely not good.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Was laying in bed admiring my tits (getting ever more noticeable in a shirt) and then

reproductive dysphoriaStarted crying thinking about how they'll never actually feed a baby :doggirl-cry: I don't even want kids wtf

But I am quite happy with how they're coming along, hoping to be a b at one year, kinda stupid to set myself up like that when I have literally no control over it. Pretty sure I'm close right now but I don't have a ton of faith I didn't fuck up measuring.

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[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago (5 children)
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[–] Jizosoxu@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago

I can't believe that goofy aah rabbit from TADC has been the thing leading to so many people coming out as trans. That episode was like repper 9/11.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I really just can't wait for a couple more things to fall into place and be living my gay city life in my own place.

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Moths have ruined a bunch of my old woollen boy sweaters that I didn't store properly I guess. I was rolling them out because it's cold and I was cosy-maxxing.

I guess my options are either be annoyed or see this as a sign from the moon goddess I need more feminine sweaters

[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I wish I could post my cool makeup looks and fits on here. I've been having a ton of fun with bold and unorthodox makeup.

I love being trans and non binary and just looking however I want.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago

The things I would do to look however I want

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[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

And we lost the culture war even harder. Great!

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