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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.


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All posts should follow this basic structure:

  1. Which mods/admins were being Power Tripping Bastards?
  2. What sanction did they impose (e.g. community ban, instance ban, removed comment)?
  3. Provide a screenshot of the relevant modlog entry (don’t de-obfuscate mod names).
  4. Provide a screenshot and explanation of the cause of the sanction (e.g. the post/comment that was removed, or got you banned).
  5. Explain why you think its unfair and how you would like the situation to be remedied.

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Make sure you follow this instance's code of conduct. In other words we won't allow bellyaching about being sanctioned for hate speech or bigotry.

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  • Which mods/admins were being Power Tripping Bastards?

A mod in !onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone

  • What sanction did they impose (e.g. community ban, instance ban, removed comment)?

Deleted comment comment on Healthy ruleationships in 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Reason: Rude and excessively confrontational
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  • Provide a screenshot of the relevant modlog entries (don’t de-obfuscate mod names).

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  • Provide a screenshot and explanation of the cause of the sanction (e.g. the post/comment that was removed, or got you banned).

notice my jovial “⚡”🔗

  • Explain why you think its unfair and how you would like the situation to be remedied.

Removal of a very cordial & jovial explanation of my anarchist stance regarding monogamy was misread as “rude and confrontational.” I ended conversations respectfully, not expecting backlashes of monogamists in what I thought was a very sarcastic post “Healthy ruleationships.” All I want is the comments returned. The thread can stay locked if the community wishes, and I will not engage in it anymore.

That is all.

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[–] alapakala@quokk.au -1 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] Johnny_Arson@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago

Based on all the other bullshit you spouted in the meme thread about defederating from "tankie" instances. Just an annoying troll and the ban was probably totally justified.

You have terminal westerner brainworms and smugness.

[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] alapakala@quokk.au -1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)
[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I just used a script to read the thread with your comments repopulated to get the full context and, even though I 100% agree with you, your tone consistently comes off as hella patronizing, which does not read like a jovial conversation

[–] alapakala@quokk.au -2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

it should be cordial. I do like to teach, so I may have had a teaching tone, but not patronizing. I did request not to be patronized about in intimacy, and bunch of other people did.

[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I feel like you'd benefit to work on your teaching tone tbh; I think folks got defensive in response to it. It is an especially touchy topic, teaching people that they're participating in oppression

[–] alapakala@quokk.au 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sure, we can open a !anarchism@lemmy.dbzer0.com discussion in !memes@lemmy.world or heck, I can make it a !mop@quokk.au l8r. But I was patronized when I asked not to be. Unsure if it was here or another comment.

[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Hm... It seems like we have different interpretations of "patronizing"?

This line sounds patronizing to me:

Remember, the sweetest revenge against your haters is to live your best life.

but what you called out as patronizing is this:

1000015499

I have to agree with this bit in response:

I don’t even know what you are trying to claim?

[–] alapakala@quokk.au -1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Remember, the sweetest revenge against your haters is to live your best life.

I didn't make that line! @Glytch@lemmy.world did, and that comment is still up!

what you called out as patronizing is this

Show the full part about dishonesty! That comment doesn't even show up on the logs!

I don’t even know what you are trying to claim?

I already explained myself to @TranscendentalEmpire@lemmy.today cordially. Did you not read the rest of that on purpose‽

[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I didn't make that line! @Glytch@lemmy.world did, and that comment is still up!

I know, and I'm saying that that part of what was said to you did sound patronizing, but you didn't call that out and instead called out something non-patronizing

Show the full part about dishonesty! That comment doesn't even show up on the logs!

That part is irrelevant to whether you were being patronized

I already explained myself to @TranscendentalEmpire@lemmy.today cordially. Did you not read the rest of that on purpose‽

I did read it, and I understood it but, like someone else said, you seemed to be having your own 1-sided conversation at them. You quoted them but weren't actually responding to what you were quoting

did read it, and I understood it but, like someone else said, you seemed to be having your own 1-sided conversation at them. You quoted them but weren't actually responding to what you were quoting

I wouldn't say they were attempting to be super rude or anything, maybe a bit sassy if anything, but I didn't mind. My biggest issue was that there were a lot of miscommunications and lack of clarity, I think mainly due to their responses being a bit logically scattered. They tended to make leaps in conclusions, causing them to make rebuttals against claims I never made.

[–] Glytch@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Don't pull me back into this. You earned what you got. YDI