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Yeah sometimes people with issues get hurt and it goes unnoticed. It's a struggle for some of us. Anyhow, sorry you think I'm singling you out. I have no reason to do that other than what felt like a very submissive tone. When I tried to explain what it might be like for others, your response felt dismissive again /shrug
I think we were talking about two different things. The person I replied to said they didn't get the meme, and I said I also struggle to relate to this particular difficulty and shared a funny, silly anecdote about the cute little misunderstandings that arise between someone I love and myself here and there as a result.
Your own experience involves a lot more hurt around the topic, which I didn't really know about based on your first reply. I didn't even know you were referencing your own difficulties communicating. You also said,
I'm sorry I made assumptions and I'm definitely projecting on some level, but at the same time it may be worth considering that someone who freezes up may have some unaired feelings. I say that as someone who occasionally does have that happen (both parts). You're right I certainly may be totally off base though and I may have read some tone that wasn't there, which text is notorious for being vulnerable to. Either way I ought to try to make less assumptions and you can take or leave what I'm saying here (and I really don't mean that in a shitty way, just admitting I may be completely wrong)
It's okay, it happens. I appreciate that you feel protective over people, that's not such a bad thing!