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How have y'all approached this with your own kids, and are there any resources out there you would also recommend? To date, my spouse and I have given our kid restricted internet access because of all the fucking AI slop and reactionary content that so many algorithms try to shove into the mouths of their users. I think the latter is especially relevant as it pertains to raising a boy in a patriarchal society and I obviously worry about the prospect of him stumbling across and consuming content from pond scum like Andrew Tate. And honestly even shit like Mr. Beast.

Sometimes it's challenging because he seems to have a number of friends who appear to have unrestricted access to everything, including the internet, and I think that bums him out a little. We want to give him more freedom in that regard, but we also want to be smart about it. But I do understand that some things may be out of our hands one way or the other and he might have to learn some things for himself with this increase in internet access.

Obviously part of internet competency is also just being safe and not giving out personally identifying information, don't click on suspicious shit that could be malicious, etc., so we do plan to teach him about that as well.

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[–] Blakey@hexbear.net 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I obviously worry about the prospect of him stumbling across and consuming content from pond scum like Andrew Tate. And honestly even shit like Mr. Beast.

In some ways I think especially Mr beast. Everyone can see what an absolute scumbag Tate is, even the people who "admire" him are I suspect being edgy, but to a lot of people Mr beast is just a successful entrepreneur and philanthropist, someone to look up to. Trying to explain to a young nibling what's wrong with the guy at the same time their parents were teaching them that saving is good was... Interesting, because all they see is "well mum and dad tell me that saving up money is good and he has lots of money so he must be good at saving", and I certainly don't want to undermine their parenting, but at the same time seeing young children look up to that greedy, self-centred, reactionary arsehole makes me sick.

[–] MF_BROOM@hexbear.net 1 points 3 weeks ago

Fair point, we've also had to explain to him that he's not a good person just because he "gives away money".