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[–] ieGod@lemmy.zip 16 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

One thing that always surprises me in the US is the sneaker obsession. Especially NY. I'll see well dressed people in a suit and then goofy ass sneakers. Looks awful.

[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 17 points 17 hours ago (4 children)
[–] brownsugga@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

A well made pair of leather dress shoes will eventually mold themselves to your feet. It's a different feeling to a sneaker, not fabric and foam rubber obv, but they can be super comfy. I've even got a pair of Frye boots I've had for like 20 years that feel tight when you first pull them on but then they're just like a second skin, you forget they're even there

[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

People have told me this about dress and other kinds of shoes. But it's not true for me so far. I've only found a few types of shoes that I can walk comfortably in period, and even just sitting, the dress shoes I've worn feel very narrow for me and have a hard and uncomfortable sole.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 2 points 6 hours ago

It sound like you might have wide feet. I do, too, and have to look hard for good quality wide shoes. The sole should ease up with use.

[–] VinegarChunks@lemmus.org 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I wear dress shoes with thick black athletic socks. They feel 1000x better. Who really looks closely at your socks anyway.

[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 0 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Reminds me of another thing I hate about dressing up. I once was chided heartily for wearing the "wrong" color of socks to a wedding. Why would anyone else give a shit that my socks were white instead of black? Apparently they do, and harshly judge me for it.

[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 6 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

OK, white socks with a dark coloured suit would look rather silly.

[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago

My point exactly^

The fact that anyone would think let alone say this is the best argument I have for dressing up being a stupid obligation

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (2 children)

Really depends. They've dropped off in quality and there are better shoes, but in terms of pure comfort, Cole Haan uses the same cushioned inserts as Jordans in some of their dress shoes, as one example.

[–] brownsugga@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago

They're owned by Nike

[–] ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Cole Haan

Ha ha, my residual /r/MaleFashionAdvice instincts kicked in on this one.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

:)

That's where I got my start! Those heady days of yore. I miss having money.

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 3 points 16 hours ago

Bad dress shoes feel awful. When I used to wear them at a dresser job, I loved my Bostonians.

[–] UndercoverNormie@lemmy.world 13 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Oh come on, they're Balenciaga!

[–] TheOakTree@lemmy.zip 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

I will never understand chunky shoes. When I was young, people at school were picked on for having very big feet, getting called a clown or a t-rex or something.

Now it's fashionable to wear shoes that are both oversized for your feet, heavier than they need to be, and make your feet look disfigured (not that I have anything against people with disfigured feet). What does having weird shapes on your feet achieve? Especially when the same people wear the same bland outfit-of-the-month as all of their fast fashion friends. Either lean into the avant garde or stay basic. You can't pick both and pretend it's cool.

EDIT: Not particularly bashing Elliot here. I don't like the look but at least it's mostly cohesive? And definitely on-brand for Elliot's style.

[–] kamen@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago

Same company that sells a canvas tote bag for $1700. Must be legit!