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[โ€“] Yukiko@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I keep putting off buying clothes cause I have no idea what will work with my body type. I'm terrified of, once again, buying stuff that don't look good on me and just wasting a ton of money.

dysphoriaJust yet another reminder that I didn't have a proper childhood so this would come to me at least somewhat easily.

And with that, I can feel my PMS on the horizon, which it is. This one isn't going to be fun :\

[โ€“] MoonElf@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thrift stores are really helpful during this period!

[โ€“] Yukiko@hexbear.net 3 points 11 hours ago

I've tried them before. The main issue is that I can't find my style. Like I can say for certain that standard stuff just doesn't suit me. Same goes for some other alternative styles. I'm just afraid of buying more for that reason. Also the kind of style I'm looking for now just doesn't pop up at thrift stores unfortunately :<

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There's the standard trans girl dress code. Belted dresses, waist high skirts, fluffy sweaters, it's pretty femme though if that's not your thing. I mostly wear sweats and a tank top at home unless Im just nude home alone lol, at work I'm in scrubs and if I'm out doing chores it's basically pants and a t shirt. I do love wearing dresses when the season allows!

[โ€“] Yukiko@hexbear.net 4 points 11 hours ago

I've tried all that before. Doesn't really fit me. I do want to do dresses, but the standard fare just isn't for me.