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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 26 points 3 days ago (4 children)

my egg cracked less than a year ago and now i'm completely and utterly stupefied that I ever even believed for a moment that I was a man. Like, not only do I look back thinking that I was always a girl, I don't even believe myself when I think that before 2023, I legitimately believed that I was male. I know that fact is true but I don't even believe that I believed it

I had such a loose association with being a man or a boy, as a kid it rarely came to mind except all the fuckin times I did ridiculous shit like try to cast magic spells or wish to be a girl or dunk cold fucking water on my head like I was Ranma. As an adult, it was more of a resignation - "oh yeah, I guess I'm a guy. A lot of my friends are girls, I'm a super ally, I'm attracted to my partner partially because they fuck a lot with gender, I love drag and do at every opportunity including very stretched opportunities, I know a lot about transitioning... but I'm a guy I guess." lol

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I feel this big time. It's unbelievable to me that there was ever a time before the egg crack and it's not even been half a year for me. I regularly unlock new egg memories that make so much more sense now and it will be forever baffling that these moments didn't crack me sooner

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 11 points 3 days ago

I literally did the "I'm cis but" on multiple occasions 😭

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It’s hard for me to believe I ever thought in school I could be a manly navy seal or some shit when I was a 5’3 shrimp

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

omg you should cosplay in slightly oversized navy seal stuff that'd be hilarious

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago

cosplay isn’t my thing

[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 10 points 3 days ago

Happy for you, girlie :)