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why isn't the use of the bidet more widespread?
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this post was submitted on 22 Aug 2023
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I was overseas and recovering from surgery. I'd never seen a bidet before arriving in Argentina a few days before, so I still wasn't used to them.
In any case, I was sitting on this bidet at 3am or something, on painkillers, and almost falling asleep while I sit there. I'm leaning forward, and turn the bidet, and it turns out this bidet has a jet of water almost powerful to reach the roof. And because of the angle I was sitting at, I get this jet of high pressure water right on my clit. I'm pretty sure the noise I made woke most of the neighbours! It was not a fun experience
That being said, I'd still get one here in Australia if I could :)
A bidet can find the clit and I can't? WTF
/s
You lie
Why do people always act like it's super difficult to find the clit?
Look at a medical textbook, put your face between her legs and you'll see where it is. It really isn't that hard.
I'm aware there are men who are so caught up with toxic masculinity that eating out a woman is not an option, and they probably actually are unable to find the clit. But do people really say "look at me, I'm a toxic person who isn't able to pleasure their partner because of it" about themselves as a joke?
Not wanting to eat out their significant other isn't necessarily correlated to toxic masculinity; I think you're conflating two different things. It's possible to be selfish completely unrelated to toxic masculinity. Not every instance of a male doing something wrong is attributable to toxic masculinity.
So people are saying "look at me, I'm selfish" as a joke?
You're completely right that not every bad behaviour in a male is toxic masculinity. And a completely non-sexist person may just not want to do it out of pure selfishness. However there are plenty of jokes about the gayness of a man eating out a woman. I'm pretty sure these topics are closely related. The logic of those men usually looks like this:
Eating a woman out => submissive => weak => bad
I don't think I've ever heard that.
Ummm.
Those two things are opposites
I know. And yet there are plenty of shitty people making jokes about it.
I LOVE eating out a woman. My woman is 8 months pregnant and I havent eaten pussy in most of that time and it's killing me lol
I haven't eaten anyone out in over a year, and I also miss it. It's super fun seeing the other person being pleasured by my actions.
No idea tbh. It's not hard to find. Sure it's hidden under a good but it's not exactly hard to see. Learning how to use it though seems to be more of a mystery. I mean shit, the majority of the time my wife struggles to know what she does and doesn't like.
I would never.
I found that discovery to be a highly welcome one personally
I mean, maybe in other circumstances, but I was not ready! :)
You can definitely get one in Australia. They are like $30 on the internet delivered right to your house and attach to your toilet in under 5 min.
Those ones aren't even close to the same. They're not worth the effort in my experience