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Where do you draw the line? Where do you stop blaming patriarchy and start blaming the people who have a fucked up sense of right vs wrong?
A man that screams at his wife when he's angry, that's patriarchy or that's on them?
A man that quietly belittles his wife?
A woman that does these things to her husband?
If there's physical violence I'm sure you won't repeat your previous message and say that they're victims as well.
I don't understand why it cannot be both? Yeah these people are responsible for their actions and should be confronted on it on an individual basis but their actions are also influenced by the society in which they live. We need to confront and discuss that too.