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I think I got stood up. (hexbear.net)

submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by LibsEatPoop@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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It’s someone from work. We planned on meeting at a nice vegan place. I’ve been waiting for an hour. Texted her a couple times at half hour intervals. Dunno what to do.

I mean, I will see her again. Cuz work. Just feels really shitty cuz I thought we could be good friends at the very least lol.

Edit: so, there was a possible explanation. I don’t know how plausible it is tbh. I can see either way. But we both apologized. I’m going to remain hopeful. I laid out my schedule and she said she did want to meet and that we can reschedule. I don’t know when. Waiting for her I guess. I dunno how assertive to be. I’m not good at this shit.

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[–] Dessa@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

Normally, if someone ghosts once, they will ghost again, but she asked to reschedule, so there's still a good shot. If she ghosts you again, do not give her a third chance.