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[–] jaggedrobotpubes@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

That would be telling if you weren't talking about ADHD meme places online.

[–] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 8 points 6 hours ago

Some of the stuff here is pretty normal tbh. But it might be worse for adhd people or something

[–] Waffle@infosec.pub 8 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

What's funny to me about this post is that there are aspects that resonate with me, but based on some of the negative feedback regarding "omg me too!!" comments, folks get upset that a "neurotypical" experiences something, potentially similarly - but not to the same debilitating degree.

[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 6 points 5 hours ago

my heart goes out to the NTs experiencing executive dysfunction, attention direction issues, impulsivity, etc. bc even if they're not to the extent of wrecking your whole life, they still suck to deal with even if on an infrequent and non-severe basis

NTs you're allowed to be frustrated when your brain's bein a lil shit!

[–] SirSamuel@lemmy.world 62 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (3 children)

Fun fact! I first sought diagnostic testing for ADHD after so many memes resonated at a spiritual level. Brain drugs are awesome and now I won't have to file for bankruptcy because of never actually sending any goddamn invoices to my customers

[–] Ethalis@jlai.lu 28 points 12 hours ago (4 children)

Same, but I'm still stuck in the "I sent an email to an ADHD specialist 6 months ago to get an appointment but he hasn't replied yet, I should probably look for another one" phase.

[–] KittenBiscuits@lemmy.today 15 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

If you have a friend to rely on to keep pinging the doc and cc-ing you, that was what finally got me there in the end. The specialist in my town was (you guessed it) incredibly ADHD themselves and in dire need of a personal assistant.

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago

My partner's help was what worked for me!

[–] Ethalis@jlai.lu 12 points 11 hours ago

I've just asked my partner to "grab me by the scruff of the neck and force me to take an appointment", as soon as possible. Thanks for your message, it actually gave me the momentum I needed to get moving

[–] SirSamuel@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago

It took me two years to find someone that not only would take Medicaid, but also would do the diagnostic testing in a way that would not cost me anything out of pocket.

After months of chasing down "in network" therapists and psychiatrists, leaving voicemails and getting ghosted, do you know how I found them? They were a customer I installed hardware for. I casually asked if they took Medicaid and could do ADHD diagnostic testing and the on site contact was like "Yeah, no problem. And we know how to code it so Medicaid will pay for it. Just fill out the online form and we'll get you started that week."

[–] obinice@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I'm stuck at the "I don't have £1500 to pay for ADHD treatment guess I'll just die" level xD

[–] Th3D3k0y@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago

1500 pounds? Stop stealing our USA medical pricing structure!

[–] tlmcleod@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 11 hours ago

Ugh, yeah. Same. But I also have social anxiety on top of it so I couldn't possibly keep bugging them until I get an appointment lmao I know I need to and that's what I should do but brain says no. Such goofy shit sometimes

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 6 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Sending invoices sucks 😞

Ita been known I saw ADHD since I was a like a toddler, but never have tried any medicines for it because my mom was strongly against such (and the doctor was wrong with their prediction that I would struggle in school). But invoices are a thing over the past couple years that have been making me want to try...

[–] SirSamuel@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (2 children)

I didn't get diagnosed until I was in my mid-forties. I'm from the same generation of "drugs for kids are bad, just let them be kids", with an added sprinkling of "my kid can't have ADHD, he's too smart".

Dude•, I fully endorse behavioral changes to mitigate ADHD behaviors, but they only go so far. As my address levels increased with age, my coping methods gradually fell apart, and then very suddenly collapsed. I spent the last three months drinking shit-loads of coffee and spending all of my office time playing FTL instead of taking care of essential administrative tasks. It was getting bad.

The point is, therapy and behavioral changes are good. But they have limits. Don't rule out medication, just trust the doctor to know their shit. Also advocate for yourself if the doctor is too cautious. Mine was worried about stimulants and my blood pressure at my age and (lack of) cardiovascular health. It hasn't been a problem at all

~~eta: •dude is officially a gender neutral term btw~~

e^2: i have been told the above is more harmful than not. I'm not too proud to admit I have more to learn

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

The point is, therapy and behavioral changes are good. But they have limits. Don’t rule out medication, just trust the doctor to know their shit. Also advocate for yourself if the doctor is too cautious. Mine was worried about stimulants and my blood pressure at my age and (lack of) cardiovascular health. It hasn’t been a problem at all

I haven't talked to a doctor. Scheduling an appointment is the first obstacle, but I intend to try to get medicine soon™. My blood pressure and HR are generally low, so I'm not too worried about stimulants.

eta: •dude is officially a gender neutral term btw

Putting this disclaimer generally comes across as much more combative and much more like intentional misgendering than simply using words like "dude" and "guy" in gender neutral ways.

[–] SirSamuel@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

Putting this disclaimer generally comes across as much more combative and much more like intentional misgendering than simply using words like "dude" and "guy" in gender neutral ways.

Fair. I'll make another edit

[–] MagisterSieran@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

eta: •dude is officially a gender neutral term btw

You don’t get to decide that for anyone.

[–] dil@piefed.zip 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Bro is gender neutral now too get over it

Nope. Not a bro, not a dude, not a guy.

[–] SirSamuel@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

I'm going to look this up in the book of Sam's law.

Oh, look at that! It says dude is gender neutral. Now if you'll excuse me I'm going to go find a redneck that put trucknuts on his Dodge Ram and congratulate him on helping his truck transition to male

E: sorry not trying to be a dick, it just comes naturally. I'll leave my original response up so everyone can know my shame. Also rednecks are pretty easy to troll

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 8 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

You sound like the finance department at my company!

[–] SirSamuel@lemmy.world 8 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

My boss is a slave-driving asshole that doesn't pay me enough. Accounting has their head so far up their ass they can see their own duodenum. Scheduling thinks I can be in two places at once, and purchasing seems to think materials magically appear on site the day they're ordered

I am, of course, self employed, and do all of the administrative tasks myself

[–] StopSpazzing@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

You deserve a raise, go ask your "boss".

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Especially funny those who after all this insist, insist that this is just normal behaviour. Everyone does it. Absolutely nothing to see here.

[–] 7U5K3N@lemmy.dbzer0.com 29 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I a saw a meme from ADHDinos that made me go to the doctor. Im 45.

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 18 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

So you are saying that memes are making the world a better place, right? .. right?

[–] RedWizard@hexbear.net 3 points 10 hours ago

The meme stabbed them in the gut.

[–] webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 38 points 13 hours ago

Wait till you find out that a decent potion of adhd memes also get cross posted in autism places.

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 13 points 12 hours ago

Those are normal behaviors dialed up to 11 and causing problems.

[–] Th3D3k0y@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

If everyone is super, then nobody is super.

If we all have some form of ADHD then does it still count as a disorder?

[–] 20cello@lemmy.world 12 points 13 hours ago
[–] Zombie@feddit.uk 2 points 10 hours ago