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I had a shit week. Work is weighing me down, keeping my home together and my kids are weighing me down, I'm fucking broke, I've been gaining weight, my fucking skin has decided to embrace dermatitis as a way of life, I need a haircut I can't afford the time or money for, I rarely feel loved or appreciated regardless of whether I actually am, it's dark when I go to work and dark when I get home, I'm struggling with sleep and energy and am overcompensating with caffeine, it's cold, all the beautiful leaves are gone, my kitchen is a mess, and there is just no place that I want to be because it is all exhausting.

Saturday morning comes around and I go to my organization's monthly meeting. There's been a lot going on lately and we end up having back-to-back meetings with our chapter followed by a joint meeting with another chapter immediately after and this turns into 3 fucking hours of organizing meetings that passes through lunch without any breaks or food. It's all important stuff, but it's also very boring. I'm struggling to pay attention, I didn't sleep enough last night, and I'm hungry.

These meetings were like an extra day of work. I'm tired, but instead of feeling worn down, I feel invigorated! These meetings that would have been a blight upon my day had they happened at work instead turned out to be the highlight of my day. I feel encouraged, I feel appreciated, I feel loved, and I feel self actualized. All of this positivity is coming after I had to make a disappointing report: that we had not met our organizing goals and have a lot more work to do.

On its face, yesterday should have been just another shit day in what has felt like a constant stream of shit days for the last few months, but it wasn't. The responses to my bad news were focused on the future: how do we move forward, what must be done to improve, and celebrating the successes that we did have. Revolutionary optimism was with us! Yesterday was a good day and I attribute that feeling solely to my comrades, the community we've built within our organization, and the work we do within our wider community. We don't always agree on everything, but we share common goals, common values, mutual respect. We build each other up.

I just wanted to share this moment of brightness with you because life is hard and only feels like it is getting harder. It's easy to feel discouraged, particularly while organizing. It's hard and unglamorous work, but I think there is nothing better to lift us out of that darkness than the support of our communities.

Comrades, I hope some of the light that lifted me up this week shines on you soon too. Socialism is the way forward! Community is the way forward!

If you aren't involved with an organization where you live and you have the means to get involved, I encourage you to reach out and join one, even if it's not a perfect fit. Get involved! Build your community! It won't be easy, but it may just be the best thing you ever do for yourself.

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[–] sosso@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I need that, but I can't find it. I emailed the so-called Marxist-Leninist parties around and got no answer. That is why I joined this site.

[–] MeowZedong@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think online spaces are good for learning, blowing off steam, and potentially getting a wider spectrum of views, but I wouldn't say it's a replacement for joining an organization. Reading and discussing theory is important, but the final step of learning is putting it into practice, which requires real-world application of theory.

I can't speak to organizations that tend not to respond to people seeking membership (looking at you PSL), but if there are any other organizations in your local area that you can get involved with, even if they are socialist, but not explicitly ML, I would encourage you to get involved.

Even if your views don't fully align with what the organization states on its surface, you'll probably find there is a range of beliefs within those orgs and you may even find some other MLs. Give them a shot and see what work they are actually doing before you pass judgement. An org that perfectly matches your views but that does little work toward changing material conditions is less useful than an org that feels slightly misaligned but actually makes an impact. Even a social democratic group will have some crossover with socialists that may lead you to meet the people you seek. It's easier to join an org when you know members than a cold-call email.

Sorry, I went on a bit of a tangent after this, but I'll leave it here in case it helps you or someone else. I hope this helps and you are able to find some comrades to work with locally! It took me well over a year to be convinced the group I joined was the correct choice and despite that, I'm still reaching out to other organizations and making connections to collaborate on projects.


An important part of being a socialist is learning to work with left allies across a range of beliefs. Not that you should never draw lines, but if you refuse to work with anyone but MLs, you will never get anything done. Hell, no socialist movement ever would have had success if they were unwilling to collaborate across ideologies.

This is often an opportunity to discuss beliefs and I think you'll find that if you approach these relationships from a desire to reach a common goal with some ideological flexibility, the people you work with will naturally gravitate toward what works with time. Being an ML isn't about being dogmatic, it's about recognizing how our material reality shapes our lives and how we can use the lessons of history to make better decisions. Not everyone is at the same point and has the same beliefs. Some of the most effective organizers I know do not consider themselves Marxists, but tend toward Marxists approaches over time as they are convinced of their efficacy. Sometimes that means trying things I don't have much faith in before moving to what I actually think will work. You could view it as wasted time and energy, but I view it as a chance for people to learn. Not everyone is willing to be a theoryhead and there are a lot of barriers to getting people to adopt a Marxist approach throughout most of the world. Not everyone involved in the revolutions we've seen succeed was a part of the vanguard party.

Our goal as MLs isn't to convert everyone to our ideology, but to help lead people towards approaches to changing our world that are effective and practical. Even the best-read ML will have a lot to learn from someone who has a lot of practical organizing experience, but rejects Marxism. We need to not only learn history and theory, but how to work with people in reality, not just some theoretical party that always agrees on everything. Dogmatism is rooted in idealism. There is no reality where everyone is ideologically aligned and perfectly consistent.

[–] sosso@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Thank you for taking the time to write that. Luckily, I received a response and am waiting for the next steps. Ofc, I am not waiting for complete alignment, itself is a denial of the Marxist-Leninism way of organising. As Lenin said, when recognising the mistakes of R.Luxembourg and Bebel, while acknowledging they were great communists. ' It happens that eagles descend lower than chickens, but the latter never rise as the former.'

That said, I would be violating myself if engaging in anything that resembles the so-called Eurocommunism. Social-democrat parties today* are... well, liberals in essence. Not happening, more harm than good.

*I am talking about the reality of my country, one that has nothing that resembles Marxism-Leninism formally represented. To give context, if you look at European reality, for instance, you still see Marxist views in the Portuguese parliament, and they are bashed by the press, defamed. The Russian response to the psyop in Ucraine, when Brussels raffled ukrainian lives, using the tactics we marxist-leninists are very aware to, and the Portuguese Communist Party pointed that out... it got even worse, yet, they stand still. So, if anyone from the PCP is reading this, I know some will, you got my deep respect.

[–] dg2jeng@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

this post filled me with inspiration and hope... i am praying on your blessings!!!!

[–] MeowZedong@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 2 days ago

I hope you find the same blessings in your own life and work, comrade!