This is a place to share greentexts and witness the confounding life of Anon. If you're new to the Greentext community, think of it as a sort of zoo with Anon as the main attraction.
Be warned:
If you find yourself getting angry (or god forbid, agreeing) with something Anon has said, you might be doing it wrong.
Yeah, no. That is not what I signed up for.
We do lift each other up, it's not a one way thing. Can advise, and do, and he does with me too. So sure, I am willing to make suggestions and he always wants me to do stuff like style his wardrobe, do all the interior design, etc., yeah I'm down, my eye is better. He plans all the trips, his mom was a travel agent.
But would not dream of using sex as a lever, because I want sex for sex.
And I sure as fuck don't want another kid, I want a partner.
Not swearing is a big fuckin ask.
Yeah but the advertisers don't want to be associated with that language so he's gotta censor it.
ADHD folk - just get an SO that can manage your bs brainhole shenanigans, ez win(-win?).
Woof....
That's rough
Puppy girl core
Hey, if two (or more) people are making each other happy and doing well, right on. Yea that "traditional " style of relationship isnt for me. Especially the idea of withholding conversation or sex as punishment. Well, if it was kink minded then maybe, but I digress.
Anywhoots, being in a happy stable relationship certainly helped me get some of my act together. Hopefully i wont fully come apart the seams right now.
Especially the idea of withholding conversation or sex as punishment.
What if the withholding is driven purely by emotion rather than being premeditated?
Sounds awful. Fuck all of that.
Don't look for the easy way out of your own maturity. Nobody can tell you who you are better than you. Look for someone who wants to build you up, not control you.
Hell yeah. Make it mutual too.
"I only care about myself when someone else cares about me" is not particularly healthy.
As long as they're consenting adults I guess
That's just a sub.
What does "sit like a man" mean ?
Don't cross your legs ? 😅
There are different styles of crossing your legs. If you put one knee over the other, that style is often seen as feminine. Compare this with putting one ankle over the other knee (so the top leg is roughly flat) and that is seen as the masculine way.
I do both. Which one depends on the situation.
Lmfao what
One knee over the other is feminine? That's fucking wild because I do it, my brother does it, my dad does it and my mom doesn't.
Guess I better start wearing a kilt and "sitting like a real man" lmfao
It's totally a thing, at least in public perception. For example, in Fortnite, there's an emote called "Have a seat." Here's two of my skins doing it: https://i.ibb.co/Fb9BRS9J/IMG-20251109-155653-COLLAGE.jpg
Notice anything? Spike and Chun-Li do totally different animations because they have different gender presentations.
If projecting an air of masculinity is important to you, perhaps? There's a lot of subtleties that we socially and often unnoticed project, just ask the trans community.
Imagine being so insecure that you are worried about how you cross your legs when you sit. People are so fucking weird
Some toxic bs like that.
I don't need someone telling me not to be a slob to get things done, but having someone around all the time makes me more aware of my better behaviours and function better.
I agree that if your partner really wants to build you up, that it can help getting honest feedback from your significant other; i have changed a lot of things to make living together work better. But the way anon describes it sounds insufferable and more like he likes being dominated; also, it can put you under constant stress if the demands are unreasonable or don't respect your needs.
Something similar kinda happened to me. I was socially inactive. She was very social and regularly meeting up with friends and brought me along with her. I get on with her friends very well actually. She also encouraged me to arrange time so she can meet my friends, too. She really turned my life around. Then she was forced to leave the country because she couldn't get a visa to stay, as the visa rules were tightened - despite her having a job and a master's degree.
