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It's very okay and normal to be afraid of changes, the unknown is scary. I'm not sure how long ago you started, but it takes time for it to really take effect. And, well, if this is happening in the span of a day, maybe tomorrow you'll feel excited about it again.
Saying that is very tansfem, tbh. Try to calm down and think about it. Do you want these changes? Do you feel good thinking about having breast development, fat redistribution and overall more feminine looking body? You can be NB or fluid and do HRT too.
I started on Halloween so it’s been about a month. I was happy with things until the other day when my nipples started to get sore, and even then I was really excited for a couple hours before it flipped.
I think maybe I’m less stoked about breasts than I am about less belly and more hips/butt. I’ve already got a sizable ass from squatting but it’s still more dude shaped than I’d prefer.
Right now my plan is to take a pause and keep thinking about it and figure out what’s got me all twisted.
I'll throw this out there, I was/am nervous about breast growth. I've only really posted about it positively but its still something nerve racking for me.
E fixes that, with time. I wish E changed my overall shape before getting breasts too. My overall look if much more important then breasts to me. I'll also say that for a while after I cracked I was not sure if breasts were right for me, a lot of the same feelings you have now. But now with more time I definitely do want them. And even still I'm a bit nervous about it, even if I only usually talk positively about it
Yeah, take some time to figure it out, think it through now. There's nothing wrong with giving up on hrt too. Maybe the having boobs thing isn't for you, and that's all well and good