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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

About voice training there's this post I saved a while back, very detailed, I thought it would be better than just posting the links, the user who posted it detailed some stuff well. These have helped me a lot, maybe you can make some progress too. Voice training is 100% possible, do not give up on it.

spoilerWell, making friends can be hard, making cool friends even harder, but it is so worth it, having someone calling you by your chosen name feels very good the first few times, even if they're online friends. You could try LGBT groups, or maybe try to get organized? I made a few very good friends at my org, but maybe just getting some online friends would already help, I barely see my friends so they're basically online friends.

Don't worry too much about being big, big women exist, with varying proportions. I'm on this boat too, to some extent, I'm tall, not that much, but my hands are really big. I'm sure you will find your body beautiful one day, when you can fully explore your expression of yourself. Including everything, clothing, make-up, nails, all of it.

I keep imagining moving out, having my stuff, fem clothes, being myself, as best as I can. This gets me through most sad days with hope.

Thank you for talking with me, I really appreciate it.

Don't worry about it, if you want someone to listen to you, don't be afraid to reach out.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 2 points 2 days ago

Thank you, I saved it too. Not sure when I'll look at it next. I know, I really can't not train because my voice dysphoria is so bad.

spoilerI really just don't have any options unfortunately. I've been called my real name a bit and yes it is very nice, love my name. There's an online lgbt group that's based near me, but none of them are trans or my age even :/ I think a trans guy joined one week, but that was it.

Thank you, I might message you at some point cat-trans