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Thank you. Honestly everything is really getting on top of me right now. It's just never ending, worsening problems. I'm so worried about the tingling in my hands, legs and feet, it's now constant, really bad and I have no idea if it's the deficiency or something else and the GPs aren't interested in trying to find any other cause. All the supplements I'm given make me sick as a dog, the endless stress of the benefit appeal and having to beg for food, and now a really badly blocked drain which we can't afford to fix and is preventing me from showering and washing my hair. Honestly if I could just press a button to instantly end my existence I would.
It really is piling on, goodness. Not being able to bathe is awful. How bad is the expected bill, do you think mutual aid might be able to help like with the car?
We've been quoted £150. I did make a mutual aid post but there is a problem. I'm now within the 6 months before they check my accounts (assuming I win my appeal). That means I will have to explain anything going into my accounts now. It will look more suspicious having lots of small donations. If I could get one person to donate the full amount I could pass it off as an early xmas/bday present from a relative. But I guess I'm unlikely to get the full amount from one person.
That does make it more complicated. The last thing you need is any issues with the benefits. Maybe someone will come through, whether it’s with funds or a way to DIY the drain.